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Cafe Soleil - Finding and Building Community

2012-01-23T23:26:00.000-08:00

Welcome back to the cafe! I hope you had a wonderful holiday season and that you were able to enjoy family, friends, fun traditions and all that such a special time of year has to offer. Now that the holidays have past I hope you are relaxed and rested.

I have been thinking a lot about community lately and what that means for us as women. Regardless of our marital status or the number of kids we do (or don't) have all of us need the support and encouragement of one another. But how do we build community? How do we find and nurture friendships?

This is one of those posts where I get to use a sappy and cute picture.

To answer some of these questions I went to a friend of mine, Rebecca Nordyke. I met Rebecca many years ago when we worked at the same church. She was a big-wig. I was a peon. But over time and with the help of Facebook we have become good friends. I admire Rebecca immensely and I am proud to call her my friend. How I ended up with real, honest-to-goodness cheerleader in my inner circle.....REALLY?.......is beyond me, but I am glad that God knows what I need in a friend and sent me Rebecca. So here is what she has to say. It's some good stuff I tell ya.

Community is such an important part ofour lives. God created us to live in it with one another, to shareour lives with each other. Community isn't just having someone tospend time with every night of your week or having a ton of followerson Twitter or friends on Facebook. True community comes from deeprelationships that are intentionally selected and nurtured. They arefed and watered just like any living thing.

I am an extrovert and I have a talentfor making friends easily. Some say that I could talk to a tree andmake friends with it. While I do like having lots of relationships inmy life and it does come easily for me, the true fulfillment comes inthose relationships that are deep and sustaining. Anyone, introvertor extrovert can surround themselves with people. It is a deepconnection to another person that is most important.

Building relationships can be fun butit can be a lot of work. You kind of have to put yourself out there.If you are not a people person, that is HARD! I believe the best wayto find people to be in relationship with is by BEING AUTHENTIC. Ifyou aren't yourself, you are building on quick sand. There is so muchthat is fake in our society today. Authenticity is refreshing.

Be yourself. Don't be afraid tocelebrate your good days while also being ok with saying, “Notgreat.” when asked how you are doing. I am not saying you need tospill all your dirty laundry with people you are just formingrelationships with but it is valuable to let others in and get toknow you...even the yucky parts. That is where true friendshipbegins. Everyone has their crap and it can bond two people togetherto see that they are not alone in those areas of their lives.

Next, when you are building your closecircle of friends, you need to BE PICKY. I am not saying that everyperson you let into your life needs to be Grade A quality: just thosewhom you let closest to you. The people closest to you will largelyhelp shape the direction your life takes. Choose them wisely.

Everyone has different needs. Some maywant only one really close friend while others, like myself, may have5 or 6. I think having a close friend, “bestie” or “BFF” thatis different from you and can challenge you is a major plus. Forexample, I am a strong person. I am full of words, opinions, rants,you name it. Many women find that intimidating in a friendship andwould find it hard to speak their mind. So, for that reason, thepeople I choose to keep near me are all strong women who have NOproblem speaking their mind to me and putting me in my place. I needthat. I don't want friends to tell me what I want to hear. I wantfriends that tell me what I need to hear. It is so rewarding – notin the moment necessarily- but after the fact. It is easy to say youwant this in a relationship but it is another thing to live it out.However, once that intimacy and love is there, as a foundation, itmakes it easier to hear the hard stuff.

My circle of friends is diverse. Theyare like me in some ways and not in others. Jaemi and I like to dogirly things together like shop, talk fashion, sewing, homedecorating, etc. Then you flip the coin and look at our politics, ourschedules and to a degree, our child rearing and we are prettydifferent. With Krista, I love to talk about digging deep intoscripture, parenting and food and wine. Yet she loves and appreciatesthe outdoors, cooking organic and letting boys bring bugs in thehouse. I, well, I do not. Then there is Christina. We could talk fordays about cheerleading, family, people, our favorite TV shows, God'sinstruction in our lives and how to apply it in areas we don't wantto, the list goes on. We are totally different in how we run ourhouse, she hates to shop and be domestic and I love it.

I love the balance that these womenbring to my life. While we have similarities and differences. Themost important thing is that God is at the center. These women alwayspoint me toward Jesus when it matters.

Once you have a friendship in place andit is something you want to keep, you have to take care of it. Therereally isn't any way around this. If you don't care for it, iteventually will die. It may take a long time but it will happen.

I have a couple of friends who, selfadmittedly, suck at being a friend. They are not the type to call,write, send gifts, stay in touch, etc. Their heart is in thefriendship but they don't ever get around to following up with it. Myadvice in caring for a relationship is to treat it like anotherperson. It needs to be loved and fed and cleaned and generally caredfor - regularly. It can be overwhelming if this isn't your area ofgifting, but everyone can do it. I would suggest the following:

BE REALISTIC. Don't set yourself up forfailure. If you can't handle 5 close relationships, maybe you need topick two to pour into. The other three can still be great, they willjust receive less of your effort. Have realistic expectations of theother person as well. If you know them well, you will know theirshortcomings and not place high expectations on them in that area. Myfriend Krista is amazing, yet our time together is so limited. We areboth busy. She isn't super great at staying in touch. I don't placehigh expectations there because I know when we do touch base it willbe awesome.

BE SIMPLE. Friendship doesn't have tobe hard or complicated. You may have the resources to buy extravagantgifts and that is awesome but not necessary when it comes to theheart relationship. It is the small things in life that often meanthe most. Does your best friend love junior mints? Mine does. If youare standing at the check out line and see them and think of her, buythem and give them to her. It may be the next time you see her or youmay have time to run them to her right then and there. Either way, itis simple but it shows that you know her, love her and were thinkingof her.

If something really matters to us, wemake time for it, right? We all lead busy lives but our busy and fulllives can be even richer if we are fostering those closerelationships. If you think of your best friend out of the blue,orbecause you saw something that reminded you of her, pick up the phoneand call.

We live in a day and age where this isso easy to do. Maybe you can't call but could you text? Could youshut down that document you are working on and tweet to her realquick? It doesn't take long to let someone know you care and thechange it puts in their friendship bank with you is big.

BE INTENTIONAL. Most of us ladies arebusy and out and about a lot. Many of us are running a home, afamily, schedules, meal plans, school work, social lives, work...thelist goes on. My encouragement to you is that there is room to maketime for your relationship to continue to grow and be strong. Do youneed to schedule in time? Maybe it is sporadic or maybe it isregular. Time with friends is critical. Our busy lives make it easyto cancel and push things back. Don't do it in this area.

One way I like to be intentional iswith cards. Who sends snail mail anymore? Other than Christmas cards,it is pretty rare. However, when you get a card in the mail, doesn'tit make you feel awesome? When I have a little extra time and cash Ilike to look through all the friendship and blank inside cards at thestore and I buy a few that fit my closest girls. Then, periodicallythroughout the year I pop one in the mail to let them know I wasthinking of them. Very little time, effort and cost but a lot ofintentionality. Honestly, if money is an issue, you can use a pieceof printer paper and just write a quick note. The sentiment will bethe same.

In closing, remember that community isimportant. If it isn't a value for you now, I encourage you to prayabout it. Ask God to bring you the right people. Be selective and beauthentic. Take care of those relationships by being simplyintentional. You will reap great rewards if you just put yourthoughts into actions!

FP Kids Academy - iPod Touch in the classroom

2012-01-17T21:29:00.000-08:00

2012 brings a new series to the FP Kids Academy - Homeschooling with Technology. In our first installment we'll take a look at using an iPod Touch as part of the daily lesson plan.

We live in the information age. An iPod Touch is a great way to introduce students to fun, simple-to-use technology and the idea of apps, games, calendars, music and videos. All can be used in the classroom and they can serve a useful purpose for students of all ages.

For the longest time I couldn't wrap my mind around the benefits of an iPod Touch. "What's it for?" I wondered. "What can you do with it?" I pondered.

Our family ventured into using an iPod Touch in our homeschool classroom last fall. I began slowly, downloading educational apps (and a few games - no, Angry Birds is NOT one of them) as well as music for the kids. It was an instant hit in our classroom.

My daughter used it to listen to her AWANA lessons each week. My son used it to supplement his BOB Books reading progress. They both used it for age appropriate learning games and listening to their favorite movie soundtracks.

As a learning tool, I decided it was a high tech way to teach them about the calendar and the weather. I bought them both a blank journal so that each morning at the start of our school day they could look at the calendar and see the date, then write it in their journal. I also made them learn how to find out the weather in our city and write that in their journal as well. Over the course of the year they will have a record of the date and temperature for each day that we do school. They will also be able, over time, to look back and see what the weather was like on a specific date and compare it to each year they keep records.

For younger kids this is an excellent way to talk about knowing and writing the date, keeping track of something over time (in this case the weather), learning about the calendar and months of the year and how weather changes over the seasons.

For older kids you might add elements like finding out the top news stories for the day, the current stock market sales or a new vocabulary word each day (especially in a foreign language).

We have since decided that each of our children should have their own units. (Expensive, yes. But if you know anything about me, rest assured I got a killa kine kine deal on them!) This is not necessary for other families, but a personal decision for our family that has had some unintended benefits.

Responsibility and respect are two that immediately come to mind. Our kids understand that these are expensive electronics that we use for school. They are not toys nor are they replaceable if lost or broken.

Therefore, there are rules for our iPods. The iPods live on my desk. They live in their cases when not in use. They can only come out with permission or during school time.

We are very happy with our decision to add the iPod Touch to our daily curriculum. I look forward to seeing how we use them over time. I will be sure to check back in and let you know. As we move forward I would love to hear about how you use the iPod Touch in the classroom. Please feel free to comment.

Studio FP - BBQ Lentils (Super Yummy!)

2012-01-10T20:48:00.000-08:00

You've probably heard how great lentils are for you. If you are anything like me, however, just the word lentil leaves a bad taste in your mouth. Well, get ready to have your taste buds blown! This recipe is not only simple it is deeeeee-licious.

Are you ready? Ok. All you need is:

1 crockpot
1 bag of lentils (any color - I hear black is the new super food)
1 bottle of BBQ sauce (I prefer Sweet Baby Ray's)
6 cups of water

Combine in the crockpot and cook on low for 8-10 hours. After 4-5 hours check the consistency. Add more water if needed.

That's it. How simple can it be?

Extras:

You may want to add meat to this great recipe. I've tried ground beef and left-over turkey. I've heard of others adding veggie hot dogs. I think anything would work that is good with BBQ sauce. Try it and let me know what you add.

Ok, FP Outlanders. Be healthy and enjoy!

Mission FP - January VOM 2012

2012-01-10T20:25:00.000-08:00

The Verse of the Month (VOM) for January 2012 is:

Won't you join us for some scripture memorization this year?

The Bungalow - Happy 2012!

2012-01-08T15:22:00.000-08:00

Happy New Year dear readers! I hope 2012, all one week of it, is going great for you. It feels like hope may be returning. Can you feel it? Most people I have come into contact with lately are just a little more upbeat, a little more happy and a little more positive than last year at this time. I can only hope such an outlook continues.

Here at Funki Planet I hope to facilitate such positive vision by introducing some recurring themes in some of the FP areas.

To start there will be a Verse of the Month (VOM) in Mission FP. Did you commit to read through the bible this year or to memorize scripture? The VOM in Mission FP should help. Just think, at the end of this year you will have at least 12 verses under your belt that you can call on to help someone else, encourage yourself or pull out of your memory bank anytime you want. How cool is that?

I will also be writing about using technology while homeschooling (or as a school supplement) in FP Kids Academy. The world is changing rapidly and kids today know a lot about computers, iPods, iPads, Kindles and gaming systems, just to name a few. Most of them know more than we do and while these things can be a lot of fun they can also be a lot of help. I plan to focus on how to use these tech items to help kids learn and grow.

Finally, make a note to stop by Studio FP at least once each month where you will find a craft and/or recipe to try. You all know that I am a huge fan of Pinterest.com, and have been since it started, but sometimes all those ideas are overwhelming. I mean really, who has time to try all that stuff? Well, in an effort to put a little reality back into the world I plan on focusing on just one thing at a time. I'll pick things I like, try them and then pass them along to you. So, go sharpen your scissors. Find your measuring spoons. Let's get creative together!

Jesus has gone to prepare a place for me - I'm pretty sure it looks something like this

Welcome to 2012. It is gonna be a great year. There will be setbacks and there will be challenges, but by supporting, praying, laughing and loving together we can make the next 12 months wonderful!

Studio FP - Circle Scarf - Sooooo Easy

2011-12-13T15:37:00.000-08:00

If you can sew in a straight line you can make this scarf for yourself or someone else. This would make a GREAT Christmas gift for just a couple of bucks.

Start with a piece of stretchy cotton. I found the one below in the remnant bin at Joann Fabrics. Note, it cost all of $3.61 and it was 26 inches long. A cotton/poly blend works nicely for winter as it is quite soft and cozy but not too hot. (this also ensures you have good edges and nothing you have to hem)

Next, lay it out and join the two ends together to form a circle. Sew a straight line across the seam. I overlapped my seam and used a fun stitch on my machine in a complementary color, but that's fancy.

Make sure the length is about waist long.

Wrap it twice around your neck and voila! You have a circle scarf. How easy was that?

Be sure to dig through the remnant bin in your fabric store. I found purple, black, pink and a fun camo with pink and purple and khaki. None was more than $4.

Have fun!!!

Cafe Soleil - Christmas Traditions!

2011-12-12T19:33:00.000-08:00

Merry Christmas!

How is it going so far? Are you relaxed? Are you stressed?

Well, you've come to the right place if you need to take a breather. This is a busy time of year and it is always good to take some time for yourself. (Remember? We talked about this last month.)

This is the time of year for traditions. Traditions are important. They are a part of the legacy we leave behind those who come after us. What traditions are you leaving behind for your family?

I asked some of my good friends to stop by the cafe this month and share some of their favorite Christmas traditions. Wow! What a rich legacy they are building. I have also created a list of some fun and meaningful traditions for you and your family to try this year. I hope you look at the list and find something new to try as you build a lasting legacy of Christmas traditions.

Jennifer W. – Craig, AK

My mother-in-law has put together Advent Baskets for our family and my husband’s siblings for years. Starting on December 1 there is a gift with a corresponding Bible verse for each day through Christmas. This is a lot of work but it is also so cool to put together. It is meaningful to dig around in the Word to find verses that work with little gifts.

For the last few years, we have also put together a “basket of love” for my Grammy -- her days are long and lonely but at this time of year she gets so excited that she actually sets the next day's gift out the night before.

Staying with this theme we expanded our outreach by starting a "Baskets of Love" project at our church -- Moms and daughters get together as a group and put baskets together for widows and shut in women in the church and deliver the baskets to them. (We did these for 10 or 12 days leading up to Christmas to make it a little more economical).

Last year, we did 3 baskets Prince of Wales Island here in Alaska. One for an elderly shut in man with no family and two for families with young children who we knew would appreciate the Christ focus of the project.

Jennifer T - Terrebonne, OR

"One holiday tradition in my house is watching Christmas in Connecticut (©1945). The lovely Barbara Stanwyck in glorious black & white is funny, charming, and full of Christmas spirit! Don't miss this hilarious movie about food, farce, and family."

Rebecca N – Charlotte, NC

My girls and me get dressed up in our Christmas dresses and head out to lunch or dinner and then go to the Nutcracker. Last year we had a big group of moms and girls that all went together.

We get our cozy PJs on, warm chocolate milk in sippy cups, blankets, Christmas music and we drive around the neighborhood or area looking at lights. This will be the second year we go to the Charlotte Motor Speedway to see their spectacular light display as well.

Peppermint Schnapps + homemade cocoa = enough said.

We usually find a family or child to support through a giving tree at school or church. We take the kiddos shopping and use it to teach them about generosity and being thankful for all we have.

After dinner on Thanksgiving night, we roll out the decorations and get ready for the next day. The rest of the weekend we take out time spreading Christmas through out the house. The girls have a PINK tree in their room that they get to decorate with some of their special ornaments and anything princess and gaudy! Then we have a family tree that the whole family works on together and we talk about the special ornaments that go on and share memories.

We get 3 (four this year) generations of women together in our family and bake cookies mid December and then share with our neighbors and friends and give as gifts. We always make cherry up-side-down rolls for Thanksgiving AND Christmas.

Our family always attends a Christmas Eve service at church. We wear special Christmas outfits and get all dressed up!

We LOVE Christmas movies. Some old favorites of ours are White Christmas, Frosty the Snowman and Rudolf the Red-nosed Reindeer. Some new favorites are The Toy that Saved Christmas, Elmo's Christmas Countdown and The Radio City Christmas Spectacular with the Rockettes.

Karin E – Ashland, OR

God Jul to all Norwegians! When December nears, or Thanksgiving leftovers are just filling our fridge, it is time to think about baking.

Growing up, I couldn't wait to begin helping mom and dad in the kitchen. It usually started with our family working under my dad's direction to roll, cut, twist and deep fry our favorite Norwegian cookie - the fattigmand (futtyman) - a cardamom flavored lightly sweet treat. The golden diamond shaped cookies cooled on brown paper sacks while we listened to Handel's Messiah, jingle bell sleigh songs and Christmas classics.

I always enjoyed inviting friends over to see this holiday tradition and cookie production line and learn about our Norwegian family recipes.

Once the fattigmand was cooled, we counted(over 500) and labeled the cookies and put them in coffee cans or grandpa's cleaned out paint cans in our freezer to bring along on Christmas tree hunting trips, ski days or when neighbors visited for tea and coffee.

 Once the fattigmand filled the freezer, it was time for other Scandinavian and Christmas treats. A traditional Norwegian home usually prepared at least seven kinds of cookies, and we had no problem filling that order. Small butter cookies called serina kaker, soft triangle cakes with almonds called mor monsen kaker, round cone shaped krum kaker, orange-flavored butter wreaths called berliner kranser, and thin gingerbread cookies called pepparkaker quickly added to our cookie stash. Not to forget about my mom's mom's pie crust cookies - cut into a dozen fun shapes, along with fudge and grandma's brown candy.

Our Christmas feasting culminated on Christmas Eve with lefsa, rice pudding and julekake (cardamom bread) served with meatballs.

Today, my family continues these traditions, but if I don't get to all of them, we make sure to make peparkaker, mor monsen kaker and lefse, along with my husband's favorite; chocolate peanut butter blossoms.

What fun and meaningful traditions these all are! At the Stangeland house we have established several traditions over the last few years:

1. Each Sunday of Advent we gather as a family to light the Advent candles and talk about their meaning. We read scripture, sing carols together (it's a great way to teach the kids the classics!) and pray for our family and friends. (We recommend this site for a family-friendly devotion surrounding Advent.)

2. On December 1 we put out the Christmas countdown calendars (Advent Calendar) filled with candy and gum. One piece for each day. Each calendar is reusable and meaningful for the kids. Beanie has the calendar that I used as a little girl. Someday she will pass it on to her children.

3. My husband and I decided long ago to limit the gifts we give to our kids. We figured Jesus got 3 presents and if it was good enough for him, it's good enough for them. This also keeps us very focused and allows us to buy meaningful and fun gifts without going overboard.

In keeping with this we don't do Santa in our house. Instead, our kids wait to see if "The Three Kings" will stop by our home on Christmas Eve on their way to Bethlehem. They always drop off 3 presents for each child, to lighten the load on their camels.

We then celebrate the 12 days of Christmas between Christmas Day and Epiphany when "The Three Kings" finally arrive at their destination. Each kid gets a "Three Kings Day" gift in January.

4. We go to Christmas Eve service dressed in our Christmas best and celebrate the real reason for the season.

5. The Friday after Thanksgiving I load up the iPod with all of the holiday songs in my music library and play them ad nauseum for the rest of the season.

This year we found some great suggestions on our Advent devotional site. Here are a few that we really liked and hope you will incorporate one or more of them in your yearly traditions:

Make or purchase an Advent wreath to take to your neighbor who lives alone, or better yet, invite them to your advent devotions.
Relight the first advent candle at meal time and say a special prayer for those who need the light of God’s love in their life.
Make or buy tree ornaments that remind you that Jesus is the Light of the World.
Make or buy candles to give to friends with a card attached to remind them to burn candles in honor of Jesus the Light of the World.
If it’s a clear night, go out and look at stars. Begin to talk about this special light that led the way to the place of Jesus’ birth.
Light the two candles again each night at meal time. Pray for peace in Jerusalem and Bethlehem and for peace in the world. Pray for our President and country that our actions might bring peace to the world.
Find a hill where you can look down on the city lights after dark. Talk about how Bethlehem might have looked at night.
Have a picnic around the Christmas tree
Attend a special Christmas concert or event together as a family.
Decorate a shoebox with the Advent color purple. As Christmas cards come in, place them inside the box. Each night at dinner, draw out a card and talk about how the person who sent it has brought you joy. Pray for that person.
Put lights in the windows. Each time you turn on the lights, say “Christ is welcome in this home.” Or, when you turn on your tree lights say, “Jesus, the light of the world, the joy of our hearts.” Do this each time you “turn on” your lights. Children love this repetition - and they learn from it.
Write on pieces of paper “jobs” that need doing around the house to get ready for Christmas. Make sure “jobs” are appropriate for children. Each family member draws a “job” from a jar or box. Each family member is to do this job within the next week. These jobs are done in order to prepare for Christmas. This job is their Christmas gift to the family. When a job is complete, light an Advent candle and say, “We are getting ready for Christmas with joy.
The prophets said that Messiah had many names, Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Prince of Peace, Everlasting Father, The Suffering Servant, the Lamb of God and Emmanuel (which means “God is with us”). Talk with your children about these names and what they mean. Then tell your children about their own names and why they have the names they do. Ask children to think of new names for the baby Jesus. Write these on pieces of paper and leave them around the Advent wreath.
Light the wreath each night at dinner and pray for people you love - and people who need your prayers -- by name, thanking God for all they mean to you.
Make Chrismons (monograms for Christ) out of white and gold paper and bows. Make and decorate in the shape of a cross, fish, manger, or crown. These symbols represent Jesus’ and are a shortened way to say his many names. Hang them on your tree as you sing “Jesus Loves me.”
Write a note or letter to each person in your family (each one does this). Tell them how you love them. Wrap the letter or note in a gift box with a bow to be opened on Christmas day. Place it under the tree.
Try to learn the names this week of all the people you meet, the sales clerk, the postman, the Salvation Army Bell Ringer, the policeman directing traffic, the clerk in the window taking your order at McDonald's. Keep wrapped cookies on hand to share with all you meet.

Whatever Christmas traditions you keep I hope your Christmas season is filled with Hope, Love, Joy and Peace. Jesus Christ loves you very much and came to earth as a tiny baby to show you just how much He loves YOU. Be sure to share this good news with those around you this season. It is the reason we celebrate!

If you want to know more about Jesus and the love He came to share, email me. I would love to share HIS-story with you!

MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!!!!

WORD 1 - Second Chances

2011-11-28T21:18:00.001-08:00

Part of the my mission in writing Funki Planet is to spread the gospel of Jesus Christ. I do that by shining a light on injustice around the world (SPARKLE), encouraging fellow believers to develop a lifestyle of prayer and fasting (LIGHTHOUSE) and by digging into the Word with my readers (WORD 1).

Today's WORD 1 is all about second chances. Look with me at Acts 12. Read verses 1-4. Pay close attention to verse 4. Here are some various translations:

KJV: And when he had apprehended him, he put [him] in prison, and delivered [him] to four quaternions of soldiers to keep him; intending after Easter to bring him forth to the people.

NKJ: So when he had arrested him, he put [him] in prison, and delivered [him] to four squads of soldiers to keep him, intending to bring him before the people after Passover.

NLT: Then he imprisoned him, placing him under the guard of four squads of four soldiers each. Herod intended to bring Peter out for public trial after the Passover.

NIV: After arresting him, he put him in prison, handing him over to be guarded by four squads of four soldiers each. Herod intended to bring him out for public trial after the Passover.

Latin Vulgate: quem cum adprehendisset misit in carcerem tradens quattuor quaternionibus militum custodire eum volens post pascha producere eum populo

Ok, just kidding on that last one (except for you seminary students!)

Seriously, let's get started. Here is my translation - Herod I (the grandson of Herod the Great) is one bad dude. He put Peter into prison before the Passover (before Easter says the KJV) in order to bring him out after the holiday and put him on trial before the people - read here - the Jews.

Are the bells ringing for you? Passover. Trial. Crazy ruler guy. Death sentence. Riiiiight.

Stop here and imagine you are Peter. Ten years ago, at Passover, you made the most horrible, stupid mistake of your life. You denied any knowledge of your best friend. Of the Messiah. Of Christ.

You know who He is. You told him to His face - "You are the Messiah. The Son of the Living God." (Matt. 16:16, Mark 8:29, Luke 9:20) Then you turned around and flat out denied Him. In terms of mistakes, they don't get much bigger than this.

Flash forward a decade. Jesus forgave you. He died on a cross for your massive blunder and He made sure you knew you were forgiven after he rose again (Mark 16:7). So now, here you are again, in the exact same position you were in on that horrible night. Now you have been imprisoned. Now you are going to face a trial. You are reliving that night in frightening detail and you have a second chance to do the right thing and proclaim the good news of Jesus Christ. This is it.

In my opinion, if you are Peter you are not feeling afraid. Instead, you feel relieved. You are not smug, you've matured beyond that, but there is a feeling that you finally get to put things right. You get to do now what you should have done 10 years ago. Stand up and be counted, in a way that mimics Christ right down to the imprisonment and the trial. How much more Christ-like can you get?

So, you sit in jail while the believers all around pray for you and fast for you and interceding for your release. As Peter, you are at peace because this is your big finale, your second chance.

Ok, stop. Hopefully, you, dear reader, get the picture and you feel the emotions that Peter was feeling.

Now think of yourself. Can you picture a horrible, incredibly stupid thing that you have done? How much would you love to get a second chance to make it right? Is it a marriage? A pregnancy? A word spoken in anger? A choice? A series of decisions? A broken promise?

Look now at verse 7. Follow along with me carefully here:

"Suddenly, there was a bright light in the cell, and an angel of the Lord stood before Peter. The angel struck him on the side to awaken him and said, "Quick! Get up!" And the chains fell off his wrists."

Wait. What? He gets kicked by an angel and told to "Get up!" - notice there was no "Do not be afraid!" here, just a swift kick - and then he's walking out of jail, finds himself at the gate of the believers and Rhoda won't let him in, then he talks to the believers who have been praying for him and then he leaves. (v. 7-17)

What happened to the big finale, the second chance to make it all right? All the pieces were in place, the players were on their marks, the jail, the trial, the crazy leader.

Oh friend, this is so awesome. Step back for a minute and look at this with me. Ready? Your idea of a second chance and God's idea of a second chance are two very, I repeat, very different things. If you think for one minute that because you have been forgiven and are now dedicated to Christ you will get a do-over and everything will work out just like you hoped they would the first time, you are in for a ginormous (that means really big) surprise.

If you really flub it up and then ask for forgiveness and tell the Creator of the Universe that you are willing and available for Him to do what He wants with you, that you'd love a second chance, trust me, He will turn your world upside down. He may give you another shot at marriage. He may give you another child. He may even let you go back and have what looks like a do-over, but then be ready for that swift kick. He will bounce you so far beyond what you ever thought possible it will blow your mind.

Look again with me at Peter. Once he leaves Jerusalem we only see him one more time in the book of Acts. But as we proceed through the New Testament we see God orchestrating one of the greatest come-backs of all time. Peter, the king of the blooper, becomes the rock on which Christendom is built. Wow!

You have heard the phrase "God of second chances." Do not be fooled my friend. God goes way beyond the second chance. He is prepared to launch you into the stratosphere, to form you into His image. Peter thought he was getting a second chance. But God did so much more. He was perfecting him.

If you are waiting for your second chance, praying for a do-over, then get ready. God is going to take you to places you never thought you could go. And yet He promised this all along.

Ephesians 3:20:

I pray that from his glorious, unlimited resources he will empower you with inner strength through his Spirit.
Then Christ will make his home in your hearts as you trust in him.
Your roots will grow down into God's love and keep you strong.
And may you have the power to understand, as all God's people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how deep his love is.
May you experience the love of Christ, though it is too great to understand fully.
Then you will be made complete with all the fullness of life and power that comes from God.
Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think.
Glory to him in the church and in Christ Jesus through all generations forever and ever!
Amen.

Cafe Soleil - Time for YOU - Week 3

2011-11-20T18:37:00.001-08:00

Hi friend. How is it going this week? I'm glad you stopped by the cafe for a little down time.

So, are you ready for Thanksgiving week? There is a lot to do this week. Did you print out your 7-week Holiday Planner? I did and I even made a schedule for each day this week. Place settings, menu, shopping, cleaning. I am ready.

But listen my sweet friend, in all your planning to celebrate the holiday, serve and provide for those around you, please do not forget to take time for YOU!!

Here is my dream for a little down time this week:


I'm dreaming of a tropical Thanksgiving......

I know, I know, it is not gonna happen. That tub. That view. But what IS going to happen is that I will take time to charge my batteries this week with some time just for me. It might be a walk. It might be 30 minutes of uninterrupted reading time. It might be fresh flowers, just for me. See, I know that if I take some time for me I will have a lot of energy for everyone else. That can only be a positive during a week like this one right?

Let me be very clear here, especially if you are having trouble making time for yourself, you are worth every minute that you take for yourself. You are valuable. You are special. And, you are absolutely deserving of some quiet, personal time that helps you to recharge your batteries. So do not neglect yourself this week. Make time for you.

What better way to give thanks for all your blessings this week than to be your very best for everyone else because you have taken time for yourself.

Happy Thanksgiving friend. I hope your week is wonderful.

Passport FP - TWWR.....A Jillian Workout & A Thanksgiving Printout (46/2011)

2011-11-17T10:54:00.001-08:00

A new Jillian workout:

Oh goodie! Thanksgiving is just around the corner and then will come a month of baking, parties, celebrating and numerous chances to eat your favorite holiday foods. If you are a regular exerciser this will probably just mean you step it up a little to account for the extra calories.

If you are not a regular exerciser you have a couple of options. The first is to, as they say in New York, "forgeddaboutit" and eat to your heart's content and deal with the consequences in January. If that's what you did last year, how'd that work for ya?

The second option is to find something active to do that will help you get a jump on your New Year's resolutions. What could be better than finding something that is also fun?

Well, might I recommend a great new workout video, especially handy for those of you in cold climates or stay-at-home moms. I recently tried the new Jillian Michaels DVD "Killer Buns & Thighs." I can tell you right now it rocks!

This is a great leg and bun workout that is about 30 minutes long, includes 3 levels of workouts and is fun too. If you are a fan of Jillian's "30 Day Shred" then you will recognize her two sidekicks, Natalie and Anita who, I might add, look better than ever.

If you are serious about your workout or if you are looking for something new and fun to do then you won't regret getting this video.

Free Thanksgiving printouts:

As you prepare for Thanksgiving next week we recommend the Thanksgiving Story Cards from iMom.com. This FREE download will make your special occasion with family memorable and fun.

From the website:

The story of Thanksgiving is an important reminder to give thanks in all circumstances! Give Thanks is a tool for you to use to help share the Thanksgiving story with family and friends, as well as a creative way to share with each other the things that you're most thankful for. This six-page downloadable resource includes full instructions.

There is much to be thankful for this year. Enjoy your holiday!

Bungalow Monday - All I want for Christmas.....

2011-11-14T21:03:00.001-08:00

Whew! What a day. It is not even Thanksgiving week yet and everything is already C-R-A-Z-Y!

Come in, come in. Make yourself comfortable. It is late so you might forgo the coffee and opt for some warm milk. I have some delicious red velvet cupcakes to offer you (gluten-free of course). It is never too late for cupcakes right?

Have you noticed? The holidays are upon us. There is hubbub about the big box stores opening on Thanksgiving night while other stores are having double black Friday sales, blue Friday sales and preview sales. It is overwhelming.

This post is not about what to buy or what to give this holiday season. It is however, a request. For myself. Of course. All I want for Christmas is to know that you took care of yourself. You planned ahead, you did not sweat the small stuff, you pampered yourself in the midst of a very busy time of life and you rang in the New Year happy, relaxed and radiant. I therefore command you to

This is all I really want. All my friends in full bedazzled-regalia! Because a burnt pie means nothing if you are wearing a tiara. Am I right?

If you are wondering how to do this exactly might I recommend a shopping trip to Claire's for something glittery! I also recommend wandering around this blog for some great tips on being your best, taking care of yourself and finding ways to outshine anything your in-laws have to throw at you.

1. To start, I highly recommend the FREE 7 WEEK HOLIDAY PLANNER from imom.com

2. I also recommend the great advice from my friend Anne over at Cafe Soleil on pampering yourself.

3. Finally, I must insist that you make these homemade butterfinger bars. If you decide after tasting them that you do NOT want to share them with your holiday guests - you are forgiven in advance. I mean really, think how much better the family fights will be if you watch them with one of these in your hand.

So, come on. Give me what I want. Sparkle on girls! And let the holiday season begin.............

Cafe Soleil - Time for YOU - Week 2

2011-11-11T15:36:00.001-08:00

Cafe Soleil opened last week and women from around the world have been stopping by everyday. Today, my good friend Anne is in the house. Anne and I have been friends our whole lives. No, really. Our parents were friends before we were even born and we've literally been friends since birth.

That's me on the left and Anne on the right with her two brother's in between. 4th of July parade 197?. Our wagon was full of kittens and half-way through the parade they all escaped. We were chasing kitties all over town. Oh the insanity!

It is one thing to be friends as kids. It is quite another to remain friends as adults. There are a lot of factors that enter the equation. Things like lifestyle, interests, family and personal choices play a role in whether we continue to be friends with people over time. I can tell you that all of those things have played a role in my relationship with Anne and our friendship has stood the test of time. I am so thankful it has.

Anne is the real deal. She's tough, she's authentic, she's beautiful and she has a deep relationship with Jesus Christ. It is an honor to introduce you to her this week. Besides being totally awesome, Anne describes herself this way - I am an adventurous and slightly restless soul who can be found blazing trails in the forests that surround my home with my dog, Bozley. I dabble in outdoor photography, love cooking, and hope to one day photograph and eat my way around the world. I have an awesome family that I love and friends I adore, have been known to crack myself up, and I prefer the simple things in life, like homemade tortillas, a great red wine and Vince Flynn novels.

This is what true beauty looks like. You want to be friends with this awesome woman of God.

A while back I asked Anne to write her thoughts about our topic this month, taking "Time for YOU". Here is what she had to say:

Life can get pretty hectic for a woman who is a wife and mother. Maybe you hold down a full-time job outside the house, or perhaps you are a stay-at-home mom. Either way, we tend to put a lot of pressure on ourselves to be all things to our family and sometimes we end up being martyrs.

What I mean is we’re so concerned with everyone else's needs (is dinner going to be fabulous enough, getting all of the laundry done, cleaning the house, running kids to and from school, sports and activities, getting everyone ready for bed, teeth brushed, books read…) that we can forget about our needs all in the name of being the most spectacular wife and mother. Next thing you know we’re asking ourselves if there’s more to life than this because we’ve neglected the one person who really needs a break. YOU.

I made the decision a long time ago when my kids were younger that I would do something for myself as often as possible. It didn’t have to be anything big, and sometimes it was taking a twenty minute walk around the neighborhood just for a breather. What I have found is that by taking care of myself in small ways, it’s much easier to take care of others because I’m much more relaxed and happy. I call it preventative maintenance and here are a few ideas for that very necessary you time.

Exercise. While this may not conjure up images of pampering for some it is a fact that exercise makes one feel better. I’m not saying you have to go sweat buckets at the gym or run eight miles but spending 30 minutes a day walking on trails in the park or even in your neighborhood does a mind and body good. Find some form of exercise you enjoy and make an effort to do it. Besides, it’s good for the family to see you enjoying exercise.

Splurge. There are so many things we can treat ourselves to that don’t cost a lot of money and let’s face it, YOU deserve it. Sometimes it’s the little pleasures like a Starbuck’s caramel mocha or a pint of Ben & Jerry’s Crème Brule ice cream. Why not go down to your local beauty college and indulge in a pedicure (they only cost $15-$20). Sometimes it’s just as simple as grabbing a Wendy’s frosty and taking it to the park to enjoy.

Alone time. I love, love, love my alone time. I work with the public all day so when I get a chance to be by myself I’m pretty ecstatic. I know one gal who locks herself in the bathroom every evening for a long relaxing bath. She says it’s her time to unwind. Me, I like to curl up with a good book or drive out to the river and go for a hike with my dog. It’s a great opportunity to think, pray or just do something you enjoy.

Girl time. I think girl time is important for a few reason. One, girls get girls. And two, one-on-one time with your girlfriend is way more enjoyable (and cheaper) than a trip to the therapist. I make an effort to get together with my close friends at least two or three times per month. Generally we meet for breakfast or coffee, sometimes after work for happy hour and on days we feel really motivated we’ll take a walk (exercise and girl time!).

You work hard as a wife and mother making sure your family is cared for and you deserve some special time to yourself. Besides, when mama’s happy, everyone’s happy!

Thanks Anne!

This week we recommend..... (45/2011)

2011-11-10T10:58:00.001-08:00

The goal at PASSPORT FP is to help make your life easier, more organized and tons more fun! This is the place I share things that I think are worth your time.

Here are my recommendations for week 45/2011: (FYI - that means you have 7 weeks until the end of the year!)

**Disclaimer - I have not been paid by any of the companies listed. These are all personal recommendations**

WEB

iMOM.com -

(from the website)

iMOM.com is a one-stop resource where mothers can find inspiration, ideas, information and insight. The site contains dozens of tools and resources to help moms engage their children in fun and creative ways. Moms can also connect with the iMOM community through Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn and YouTube.

iMOM is the motherhood program of Family First, a national non-profit based in Tampa, Florida. In addition to the iMOM program, Family First also offers the All Pro Dad program, along with The Family Minute. Watch the videos below to learn more about Family First's programs and the real stories of lives that have been changed as a result of the solutions that we offer.

I just recently found this website and I LOVE it. They have a treasure trove of information and I think you'll love it too.

I recommend the FREE 7 WEEK HOLIDAY PLANNER as you begin to prepare for the holidays. It has some great advice and free tools for your holiday meals, gift buying and organizing your life.

Always-IceCream.com - (for girls)

(from the website)

Always Icecream is a learning and play platform for young girls developed by educational experts, including teachers, academics, homeschooling parents, and award-winning software developers. The site is operated by Miaplaza Inc., software development company founded 2004 and located in Silicon Valley.

While this site is recommended for girls ages 7-12, my six-year-old loves it. It is secure, has bible content (or not - you can choose), is fun, colorful and exactly what she is into - puppies, princesses and games. It really keeps her attention.

There is a FREE trial as well as an option to purchase a membership. I think it is well worth the money and is not terribly expensive for the enjoyment she gets from it. I also feel secure that she is playing something safe that has no questionable ads and she can play unattended if I am busy. We do, however, enjoy playing it together and she enjoys playing it with her friends.

Clever-Dragons.com - (for boys)

(from the website)

Clever Dragons is a learning and play platform for young boys developed by educational experts, including teachers, academics, homeschooling parents, and award-winning software developers. The site is operated by Miaplaza Inc., software development company founded 2004 and located in Silicon Valley.

You guessed it! This is the companion site to always-icecream.com for boys. It is brand new and follows the same format as the girls site. My guy is still pretty young for this site, but we'll probably sign up anyway so that we can play and learn together. This is a great site and I'm so happy they made one for boys. I think you'll like it too.

Cafe Soleil is OPEN!

2011-11-04T15:07:00.000-07:00

Welcome to CaféSoleil! I am so happy that youhave found your way here. Grab acomfy seat and a cuppa and let’s spend some time together.

Café Soleil is just foryou. A woman. A friend. A mom. Asister. A daughter. It is the place you can come to forencouragement, comfort, relaxation and support. There is something for everyone here and you are welcome toparticipate in the discussion or just sit and listen.

It is good to have a placeto let your hair down. It is goodto have other women to bounce ideas off of. It is good to hear the stories of others and realize thatyou are not alone in your struggles and challenges. This is that place. Welcome.

This month’s topic is: Timefor YOU - How and why do you pamper yourself? As we head into the holiday season there is a lot to lookforward too and a lot to prepare for. It is important to make sure that as you love on the people around you,you also love on yourself. How doyou do that?

When I started writingthis first Café Soleil post I was sitting in an airport in the PacificNorthwest, waiting for a flight to sunny California. (Just so you know, it actually rained.) I was on my way to surprise my best friend from high schoolfor her 40^th birthday.

I had been looking forwardto the trip for several weeks and, especially for the week leading up to thetrip, I was crazy excited to go spend some time with my friends and family sanskids and other daily responsibilities.

Don’t get me wrong. I love my family and I adore mychildren. I am a homeschool momand we spend a lot of time together. But it is also fun to get away from the hubbub of life just spend timewith other women laughing, reminiscing and making memories together. For me, travel is a greatway to pamper myself.

Unfortunately, travel doesn’t happen very often for me so I have to find other ways to pampermyself. With two kids and ahusband who travels several days a week I have to find little ways to be goodto myself too. I have learned thatsmall “goodies” are very helpful too.

I am an avid reader so newbooks on my Kindle are a great treat, especially when they are free. I also like a good chick flick andshopping without my kids. There’snothing like being able to wander through TJ Maxx without being being on a schedule ordragged to the toy section. I alsohave a standing bunco night once a month with some of the ladies in myneighborhood.

So the question is, how doyou pamper yourself? How do you carveout time just for yourself? Whatmakes you happy and relaxed after a stressful day or a long week? Do yourecharge your batteries by spending time alone or do you thrive on being surrounded by others? Share your thoughts and ideas.

Studio FP - Gluten Free Scones: Sucess!

2011-10-26T19:53:00.000-07:00

While I wait for the baked taquitos that K2 and I just made to come out of the oven I thought I would tell you about my scone success this morning.

The other night while my kids were at AWANA, I stopped at Barnes and Noble . It was educator appreciate week so I was looking for something to get with my discount (homeschoolers you can get an educator card at B&N for FREE!)

I was specifically on a hunt for a book of kid recipes that are gluten-free. I needed some ideas for quick, easy meals now that our regular go-tos are off limits. In the discount section I found a great book called "recipes for GLUTEN-FREE kids". It was $6 so I bought it. I am sure glad I did. It's great.

This morning I gave the chocolate-chip scones a try and they turned out GREAT! They are tasty and not too dry. I'm sure you could tweak the recipe and do something with blueberries or other fruit. These are definitely going into the repeat file.

What they are supposed to look like and how mine turned out - not bad!

I particularly like the flour mix that is used throughout the book. I made some up in my fridge for all these kid recipes and it's good. I'm sure you could make your own mix too, but since this book calls for one regularly, I'm going to keep it on hand.

Last night we had the cowboys in the saddle, made with carne asada - which K2 has now renamed "cowboy asada" - and potato wedges. Tasty! Tonight we are going to have the fish and "chips" (carrots and zucchini). I'll let you know how they turn out.

Keepin' it funki in the kitchen!

Bungalow Monday - Bento Baby!

2011-10-24T18:08:00.000-07:00

Hi! How was your weekend? Mine was quite nice. I attended a women's event that was superb. I learned a lot and had a great day basking in the love of my heavenly father. It really re-energized me.

We're in the full throes of autum here. The leaves have finally turned and our neighborhood is blazing with color. It's time for my yummy apple cinnamon candle to come out. Can you smell it? Hmmmmmm....... I'm glad you are here to share it with me.

This is a gorgeous tree in our front yard.

If you are a regular FP reader you know that we recently went gluten-free at our house. I can honestly say that it is going quite well. We have discovered some great alternatives and had some funny mishaps but nobody has starved yet.

Here is my latest project:

Bento (弁当 bentō^?)^[1] is a single-portion takeout or home-packed meal common in Japanese cuisine. A traditional bento consists of rice, fish or meat, and one or more pickled or cooked vegetables, usually in a box-shaped container. Containers range from disposable mass produced to hand crafted lacquerware. Although bento are readily available in many places throughout Japan, including convenience stores, bento shops (弁当屋 bentō-ya^?), train stations, and department stores, it is still common for Japanese homemakers to spend time and energy for their spouse, child, or themselves producing a carefully prepared lunch box.

So, the back story:

Last Friday we met some friends out at the museum and I packed our lunch. Between the three of us we had so many ziploc bags it was crazy. So, I decided to see what I could do to alleviate our baggie dependence. I hate waste!

In my mind I was thinking "Bento". But where do you find a japanese lunch box in my town? We do not have a lot of options so I was pretty convinced I would have to find the solution online. But, to my great surprise, I found a very good baggy-alternative at World Market. For jut $4.99 I found these bento boxes for everyone in the family.

Here is mine. It comes complete with a snapping lid, spoon, set of chopsticks and two trays to hold food.

When I got home I spent about 10-minutes on Google looking for some bento lunch ideas and was, of course, overwhelmed by the choices out there. There are bento accessories too. Who knew? Some people really get into their bento preparation. There are moms out there who are crazy creative. I think I'll have to work up to that. But I did find some really good sites for ideas (complete with pictures!)

I have to say that my favorite sites so far are:

You might remember that we homeschool, so we don't have a big need for lunch boxes, but kids are kids and they deserve to have a full school experience, lunch and all! These are a great way to have something ready when they are done with their schoolwork and need lunch.

This was my lunch today. Chicken, veggies, dried apricots, rice crackers and hummus and a little cottage cheese. Tasty and filling and perfect in the new bento box.

I like this idea. It gives me the freedom to provide my kids and myself with healthy snacks and meals. I can control portions. I can make sure there is variety and it's pretty fun to open the box each day and see what's inside!

Since we're going in a new direction with our eating we might as well make it fun. Just don't expect me to enter any bento creation contests. They actually have competitions for the most creatively designed lunches. Seriously, just Google it. You'll be amazed.

I hope you have a great week. Do something funki!

Bungalow Monday - Cleaning out the kitchen and going gluten-free

2011-10-17T17:30:00.000-07:00

Hi friend! How are you today? Hopefully your weekend was relaxing and fun. We haven't talked in a couple of weeks and I've missed you.

I'd offer you a cuppa and a muffin but I don't have any today. Let me tell you why. Last week our world was turned upside down when my new doctor advised me to go gluten-free. Wow!

Ok, let me give you the back story. For the past 12 years I have suffered from a thyroid disorder. I have hypothyroidism along with an auto-immune disease called Hashimoto's. The basic gist of these conditions is that my thyroid gland does not make enough thyroid hormone and at the same time my body thinks my thyroid is a foreign entity so it attacks it. Oh super!

As a result of these issues I get regular labs done to check my thyroid levels (I take a thyroid replacement). Recently, I decided to plot my lab results on a graph for my new doctor. The outcome was a stunning. My graph looked more like the Himalayas than a flat beach boardwalk. I was all over the place and lately I have been feeling rather junky. Not sick, per se, but not healthy and not well. So, my doctor and I came up with a plan that includes changing medications and she suggested that I try a gluten-free diet for 3 - 6 months.

About a year ago I went to a presentation about thyroid conditions and heard the speaker say something I had never heard before. The molecular structure of the protein in gluten looks almost identical to the thyroid gland. Therefore, when someone with an autoimmune disease, like Hashimoto's or Grave's disease, eats gluten (think wheat, rye or barley here) the immune system goes into overdrive and starts sending out antibodies to attack the thyroid because it can't tell the difference between the gluten protein and the thyroid. Hello? This can't be good.

I half-heartedly tried to go gluten free after that but it wasn't really a successful attempt. I didn't know if it was really something that could help me. I know. Believe me, I know. I'm stubborn. Well, last week, after being tested for those antibodies, my doctor suggested that since I have them in my system I should give up gluten. I was not happy and I know she could see it. But by the time I left her office I said I was willing to give it a try. Boy was I depressed.

First stop, the book store for one of the "Dummies" books on going gluten-free. Next stop, Whole-Foods for a tour of where to find products that would help me and my family make this transition. Can I just say that the staff there was amazingly helpful and showed us where to find everything we would need to turn our kitchen into a gluten-free zone.

Your next question might be "What about your family? Are they going to eat like that too?" Well, the short answer is YES. Believe it or not, five-years ago my husband was diagnosed with the exact same condition as me. We are BOTH hypothyroid and we BOTH have Hashimoto's disease. So this could do nothing but help him too. Our children do not share our disease, however our daughter has unexplained itching, without any outward signs such as rash or hives, and we figure this could only help.

So, I spent all last week cleaning out our kitchen, pantry and food storage areas. Who knew there was wheat in so much stuff? Tomato soup even. Why? I have no idea, but it's in there. I took 53 pounds to the local food bank, took a wagon load of opened food (like noodles) to my neighbor and gave 3 grocery bags full of goodies to a friend for a family in need. Nothing was wasted for sure, but my shelves sure do feel empty. (And all that cake mix I got for $0.25 from my couponing - GONE! so sad!)

One week into it I have to say I think I am feeling better. If anything I am feeling clearer in my head. At bunco last week I suddenly felt like a fog was lifted. It was surreal. (It didn't help my game any though. I won a big fat nuthin'. But had a great time!) It will be interesting to see what happens over the next few weeks. I am looking forward to trying some new recipes and finding some good, healthy alternatives to our old favorites. Yesterday I made some cheese crackers and my test group is gone, gone, gone. They were all gobbled up by the little people. Nice! I also cooked a lentil recipe and it was a hit.

If you have any gluten-free recipes or websites you want to share, please do it! I really want to expand my repertoire. I'm sure some of you are gluten-free too, so share the wealth people.

Well, thanks for stopping by. I hope you have a great week. See you again soon!

MISSION FP - Fasting like a warrior

2011-10-14T10:29:00.000-07:00

This week I spent some time fasting with a friend. I have been fasting for quite a while on a regular basis and one thing I have learned is that it does not make the devil too happy.

Before I ever tried to fast I read books and blogs and listened to sermons about what an important part of the Christian life fasting is. Naturally, I thought, "How hard could it be to give up a little food?"

Oh people! Learn from my mistakes. You may think it is the deprivation that is hard or trying to find time to be alone with the Lord. But guess what? These things are challenging but not the most difficult part of a fast. The most difficult part of fasting is not being prepared for the attacks of the enemy either during or after a fast.

Think of it like this: You want to bake a cake. You set aside the time to prepare it. You get out all the equipment and ingredients you need. You choose a colander to mix it up in. WAIT! What? A colander. No, you don't use something that won't hold the ingredients. You have to be 100% prepared to do something if you are going to do it right and fasting is no exception.

But of course, God has not left you without instructions. Ephesians 6 gives the exact guidelines you need to fast successfully.

6:11 Clothe yourselves with the full armor of God so that you may be able to stand against the schemesof the devil. 6:12 For our struggleis not against flesh and blood,but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world rulers of this darkness,against the spiritual forcesof evil in the heavens.6:13 For this reason, take up the full armor of God so that you may be able to stand your groundon the evil day, and having done everything, to stand. 6:14 Stand firm therefore, by fasteningthe belt of truth around your waist,by putting on the breastplate of righteousness, 6:15 by fitting yourfeet with the preparation that comes from the good newsof peace,6:16 and in all of this,by taking up the shieldof faith with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. 6:17 And take the helmet of salvationand the swordof the Spirit, which is the word of God.

Do you see it? You can't just fast and pray and hope everything works out ok. You have to suit up. Be battle ready and stand your ground. If you aren't prepared the devil will come find the breaks in your wall. He will get all up in your business.

But you don't have to let him. You can be ready. Fully suited up with your complete armor on, your war clothes. When you are prepared there is nothing he can bring against you that will succeed. Truth, righteousness, the good news of peace, faith, salvation and the word together create an impenetrable barrier that that crafty old Satan can not get by.

In fasting this is critical. Fasting takes you to a very vulnerable place. It opens a direct line between you and the Father, the Creator of the Universe. If you go into that place unprepared you will pay the consequences. God is waiting to connect with you, to bless you and to give you good things in your life that He has prepared in advance for you. The devil knows this and is watching all the time. Whenever he can get a kick or a punch in he's gonna take it. These blows feel a lot less dramatic with full armor on.

So, remember if you are going to put the time and energy into fasting, do it right. Suit up. Put on your war clothes, the FULL armor of God and be ready to take some blows. You are stirring the pot when you fast. The devil doesn't like it but God will reward your faithfulness and He as equipped you to stand against anything the sly guy can throw at you.

Stand firm! Fast like a warrior.

Passport FP: Brooklyn Deli - Spokane, WA

2011-10-06T17:12:00.000-07:00

We just came back from a trip to Northern Idaho. On our way home we stopped in Spokane, WA to get a bite to eat. We had a restaurant in mind but had to go to Plan B when we found Plan A wasn't open for lunch.

Wow! What a plan B it was. MDS said he was in the mood for a deli. Well, lo and behold we were standing in front of one. It was called Brooklyn Deli on S. Monroe. We decided to give it a try.

Now let me tell you, if you live in the Spokane - Coeur d'Alene area or find yourself passing through you absolutely MUST stop at Brooklyn Deli.

I had a Gobbler sandwich with turkey and cranberry sauce on whole wheat and the tomato parmesan soup. MDS had a Cordon Bleu sandwich and the Cordon Bleu soup. After just one bite we were in heaven. I've eaten a lot of sandwiches in my life but that was one of the best I've ever had.

The food really IS as good as it looks!

Honestly folks, if you find yourself in the area this is the place to eat. We noticed it had been voted Best Deli by local folks and judging by the crowd - they can't be wrong. Judging by the food - they weren't!

Brooklyn Deli
122 South Monroe, Spokane, Wasington 99201
p-509.835.4177
f-509.747.5552

Find them on Facebook too!

FP Academy - The Happy Hollisters

2011-09-29T13:04:00.000-07:00

Do you remember reading a series like Nancy Drew or The Hardy Boys when you were a kid? I do. I remember reading a series called Cheerleaders when I was in junior high. It was cheesy and not all that deep, but I loved it and I couldn't wait for the next book to come out.

When I was in grades 1-3 I went to a tiny private school with all twelve grades in three classrooms. We had first through sixth grade in my class and my teacher's name was Mr. Goodyear. He looked like Jack Sprat or Ichabod Crane. He was tall and sorta scary to a six-year-old, but a really wonderful teacher.

After lunch each day Mr. Goodyear would read to us. His books of choice? The Happy Hollisters. Oh, how I loved these books. The adventures of the 5 Hollister children, Pete, Pam, Ricky, Holly and Sue would transport me to wonderful places.

After the third grade I didn't think about these books anymore. My sixth grade teacher (at a public school in California) read us The Chronicles of Narnia and then I was off into the world of cheerleaders.

As an adult, living in Bellingham, Washington I used to peruse the many antique and second hand stores that abound there. One day I found five Happy Hollisters books in a second-hand booth near the waterfront. I bought them all in anticipation of having kids of my own one day.

Well, I have kids now and we started reading our first book recently. We are having a blast. The kids are getting to know the Hollister children and we are on an adventure right now that includes a hidden turquoise mine and a tribe of Indians in the Southwest. For my little cowboy, nothing could be more exciting.

Jerry West did such a great job writing these books. (You can find out more about him at this great Happy Hollisters website.) He really knew how to leave a kid hanging at the end of a chapter and of course I've been playing that one to the hilt.

If you have kids ages 4-12 and you are looking for some quality, fun stories I highly recommend The Happy Hollisters. My library doesn't carry these books, but yours might. I am going to recommend that they get them, and soon! You can find the books in second hand stores and I heard they just released some of them again in paperback. You can buy these new releases at the Happy Hollisters website.

I hope you find yourself in a Hollister adventure very soon. Happy Reading!!!!

Bungalow Monday - Organizing Your Heart

2011-09-26T14:27:00.000-07:00

Hey there! It's Bungalow Monday. Thanks for stopping by. Things are a bit of a mess because we were camping all weekend. I need to get to the store for some essentials like milk but I'm sure I can wrangle up some tea and we've got some killer left-over chocolate cake from my hubby's surprise party on Saturday night.

Have a seat. Let's chat.

How's your life? Mine is going well. I'm feeling organized in a physical way. I have a great calendar going, my house is in order, I'm practicing being organized in my activities and my commitments. (This means sometimes I have to say no.) How about you? Are you making some progress in this area?

If your house is getting organized how about your heart? I know for a fact that mine needs some attention. My heart is in need of some healthy fellowship and a game plan for developing a smart heart that loves deliberately.

I live in a town with a river flowing through the middle of it. In the middle of town is a large "pond" section of river where the water meanders along. Over time this section has filled up with sediment. It's become such a problem that the town is contemplating all kinds of methods of removing the gunk and trying to figure out how to keep it clean.

Last year I spent considerable time cleaning out the sediment in my own life. I had let the waters of life meander along and there was some serious gunk that had built up. I did some healthy "deposit" removal but was pretty raw and exposed after the process. The waters of life kept flowing and I never really replaced what was there with anything healthy and new. I had no game plan to keep it clean.

I can see now that I need to do some work again and also make sure that I fill that space with healthy things that will keep me free of unwanted sediment. I need to be purposeful and aware of the "deposits" that I am making in people's lives and that they are making in mine.

It's actually kind of exciting to think that I can be a part of this process. I get to choose my affiliations and I get to say who makes a deposit in my life and who doesn't. I get to practice making positive deposits in other people's lives too. I get to actively and purposely organize my heart.

I don't have all the answers on how to do this, but I know it is important and I am committed to giving it my best shot. I want to love deliberately. Don't you?

Well, I'm sure we'll be talking about this again. I hope you have a great week. Keep working on your organization - both inside and out. It was really nice to spend this time with you.

Bungalow Monday - Get Organized for Fall

2011-09-19T07:58:00.000-07:00

Welcome to the bungalow. Come sit out on the porch with me in these waning days of summer. The tea is brewed and I've got some tasty muffins cooling on the counter. Grab one and let's chat.

So, what's on tap this week? Do you have big plans? Do you know what needs to be done? How do you stay organized? Do you need a little help?

As you head into the next season (fall actually starts this week!) what can you do to make sure you are organized and on top of things? Does it sound overwhelming?

Listen, life will always be complicated. It will always present challenges. Unforeseen bumps in the road will pop up all the time. By now you know this right? Bumps don't just pop up sometimes - they are always popping up. We are surrounded by whirling chaos most of the time. Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do about it.

But you can keep your stress levels low by preparing for what's ahead. Just a little planning on your part will turn the bumps into mere blips when somebody wants you to show up for an event, bring something for a get-together or borrow something from your collection. When you know the path, when you have a plan, when you are organized, then the bumps of life are totally manageable.

Are you ready to manage your life instead of being managed by your life? Why not get started today? Make a commitment to get organized for fall. And as we move from fall to winter and the holiday season, you will be ready to tackle the bumps of life. You will also be in a great position to maintain your boundaries. You will be organized enough to say yes AND no to things that people want you to do. If your boundaries are in need of repair - this is a great place to start.

If you use an organization system to keep your life in order you are on the road to success. Please share your secret. I always like to hear new ideas and get tips from those who've found something that works - so do other FP readers.

If you are looking for ways to be more organized I recommend a nifty little book called "Organized Simplicity" by Tsh Oxenreider. I found this book earlier this year and it revolutionized my life. I wrote a post about it back in March and I can honestly say that my life has been 1000 times more organized and manageable by using the Home Management Notebook that Tsh talks about. Take the first step today and you'll be amazed at how easy it really is.

It's Monday. Nobody really likes Mondays. But maybe together we can be just a little more organized than we were last week. When the chaos flairs up and the bumps come we will hold up our organizers and smile, knowing we've got a handle on at least some of it. There is nothing like the feeling you've got a handle on your life. Will it work for all the chaos that you are surrounded by? No. But every little bit helps right?

I hope you have a great Monday. Thanks for stopping by. It was nice to spend this time with you. See you soon!

Cafe Soleil - Coming Soon!

2011-09-18T19:02:00.000-07:00

Cafe Soleil is coming soon to the FUNKI PLANET.

It's just for women and it's a place that we can join together in community to encourage one another, laugh, learn tips that will help us be our very best for ourselves and the people we love.

Get ready - it's gonna be fun!!!

DIY - repurpose that old crib

2011-09-09T09:30:00.000-07:00

I found this picture on pinterest.com (of course) today and had to share. This is the best recycling project I have seen in a long time.

I love that this project takes something so necessary and that has so much sentimental value and finds a new purpose for it.

You can find all of the information on how to make one of your own HERE. At this website a crib is called a cot, but you get the picture.

If you do make this project, please let me know. I want to see it!!

Special Days: Happy Birthday Beanie!

2011-08-17T19:49:00.000-07:00

I have a small person at my house who is about to have a birthday. While I am spending the week wondering where the time has gone, she is spending the week pining for presents and telling everyone about the pool party she has planned.

I like making a big deal out of birthdays. I like making them special and memorable and in the years to come I want to be able to look back with my kids and remember what a special day it was.

I also like to commemorate the year that has passed. Since the kids were small I have written a letter to each of them in a journal. When they are twenty-one I will give each of them their journal to take with them as they go their own way in the world.

Today I also read about another way to involve the kids in making special memories at "Eighteen25", a great blog for creating beautiful things, getting new ideas and enjoying life. I ran across a post from a few of months ago called a "birthday box". In essence it is a box that holds a photo and a questionnaire that your child can fill out. Over time it will be great fun to see how they and their dreams and handwriting have changed.

You can see how it's done and a sample page HERE. Or create your own!! I plan on making one of these this week for my little Beanie Girl.

Oh, where has the time gone my sweet girl? You were a little bundle in my arms just moments ago and look at you now! Happy Birthday Beanie!

Diary of a room makeover

2011-06-20T21:19:00.000-07:00

So, remember that room re-do I have been working on? Well, it's pretty much done. Just in time for us to move. Go figure.

But, I know how to put it all back together in our new abode so that will be fun.

Here are some of the finishing touches I wanted to add.

Here it was before......

And now with a little pizzazz added! ($29.99 from IKEA and some spray paint)

Here is my husband's dresser that I have been meaning to refinish for the last 3 years.

I FINALLY got it done and it looks gooooooooood.

I think all ladies should have a dressing table. I re-purposed an ugly brown and black desk for mine.

I found an old gold vanity tray at a garage sale for $5. I spray painted it to match the mirror over the bed. It's cool!

A little spray paint and some good garage sale finds and you are in business. I highly recommend Dick Blicks Art Supplies for all your painting needs. they carry Montana Gold spray paints that come in hundreds of colors you won't find at your local hardware store. I used "Strawberry" for my project and it matched the fabric in the room perfectly.

Like I said, we're moving. In three weeks. But at least I know my new room will transfer almost seamlessly over to the new house. I can't wait to put it all together over there.

Fun treats for when you are in charge of snacks

2011-05-14T20:49:00.000-07:00

We were in charge of snacks for Daisies this week. I found these cute ideas (on Pinterest.com of course) and they were a big hit with the troop.

Butterfly fruit - One toothpick with 3 grapes. One toothpick through the middle grape to hold the orange quarters on. Simple.

Treat Teacups - (from the bottom up) Keebler Striped Cookie for the bottom. Easy frosting (in the spray can). One Peachee-O or Apple Ring. More frosting. Cut off an ice cream cone. Put on top of the frosting. Cut Peachee-O in half. Attach to side of cup with frosting. Add your favorite treat to the cup (we used jelly beans). FUN!!

Makeover / Simplification - The Master Suite

2011-05-14T20:37:00.000-07:00

After a spring of cleaning, simplifying and purposefully living I decided it was time to give our master bedroom a makeover. We have been living a life of chaos and uncertainty for quite a while. I thought with the change in life status (hubby finally got a job) that some other changes were in order: mainly the beautifying of some of our living space.

Of course Pinterest.com plays a major role. It was about the time I started having these thoughts that I discovered Pinterest.com and began to create the changes online before I made them permanent in our home.

I started a board called "The Reinvention of ME" and started pinning all the beautiful ideas, colors, designs and items that I wanted for our space. Over time I refined the colors, patterns and designs and came up with a color palette and feel for the room. By using our existing furniture and adding a few new items, the room began to take shape.

It is not quite finished. I have a few things I still want to do, and I won't put up any artwork since we will be moving soon, but the transformation is quite amazing. The room feels completely different and I have definitely achieved my goals for the space. (All for a small amount of money I might add.)

Here are a few sneak peaks (click any picture to blow it up):


This was the room before - I'd like to say on a very messy day, but that would be everyday.

After - neutrals of beige, white and pale blue, with a color pop of bright yellow and raspberry


This used to be a shiny brass lamp with a black shade. It's much more attractive now.

When the other parts are finished I'll show you how they turned out. For now I'm going to go relax in my new Master Suite.

Mother's Day Ideas - Easy crafts to make this week (UPDATE)

2011-05-02T11:39:00.000-07:00

Mother's Day is next Sunday. If you are looking for some fun gifts for grandmas or other moms in your life here are my recommendations:

For your gardening / crafting mom:

Loved this for our garage sale last weekend!!

This craft apron is easy and can be filled with gloves, seeds, gardening tools or crafting supplies - gift cards are good too. Get directions HERE.

For your tea loving mom:

Try this fun tea tray craft that incorporates your kids art. (obviously works well for bananas too!)
Go HERE for directions.

To help mom keep track of her growing family:

This birthday calendar is so fun and very easy to make. Directions are HERE.

Here is how mine turned out:

Don't want to make anything? Order your mom these great reusable bags.

They hook onto the cart and are machine washable. Go HERE to order.

Whatever you decide to make or buy for your mom enjoy your day and give three cheers for moms everywhere!!

DIY Craft Apron - Easy

2011-04-30T12:51:00.000-07:00

So I saw this on Pinterest.com recently and I decided I needed one for crafting and the garage sale I am having next weekend.

Here is the original picture:

The simple directions are HERE.

Here is my attempt at this project:

Starting from left to right:

1: Purchase or use a canvas apron from one of the big hardware stores. They cost about $1. Get some heavy duty fabric - 1/2 yard should be plenty (1/4 yard even)

2: Cut a piece of fabric bigger than then apron

3: Sew a top seam and then place the fabric in the center of the apron. Sew two straight stitches down the center, just as you see on the apron.

4: Should be attached at the center and look like this.

5: Fold the edges and bottom around the apron and sew.

6: I like to use a fun stitch for this.

7: A view of the back side.

8: The completed apron.

9: Now you have 4 pockets. 2 from the original apron and 2 that you attached.

Here is how it looks:

This has many uses!

P.S. I used my new crafting ironing table for this and it was awesome! Learn more HERE.

Here's what I did in the last 24 hours.....

2011-04-28T13:26:00.000-07:00

So, I plugged my new addiction recently - Pinterest.com - and yesterday and today I made some of the great crafts I found on the site.

They turned out great and were cheap to make. I'm so happy!!


Mini ironing board - made from a TV tray. For crafting.

Wood hangers I found at Goodwill for $0.99

Coat rack from wood hangers - love the hooks

One for mom and dad and one for the kidlets. Perfect!

You can see more Bright Ideas I have found HERE.

Post #100!!

2011-04-28T13:19:00.000-07:00

So, this is my one hundredth post. WOW! I just thought I should do something momentous to celebrate - so I ate a mini-twix and looked on the internet for celebration photos. I live dangerously, I know.

Thanks to all of you for reading! Here's to another 100 posts!

Organized Creativity - Pinterest.com

2011-04-23T10:03:00.000-07:00

Have you ever seen a picture of a quote online and wanted to remember it? Maybe something like this:

Or maybe you saw this and you had to have it:

Just writing down a quote doesn't do it justice. Just bookmarking the web address isn't enough. Sometimes it's the beauty of the presentation that really makes the difference.

Let's try another example. Have you ever wanted to redesign a room in your home? You might of started to collect pictures from magazines, color swatches and write down ideas. But sometimes it is hard to visualize what all those things will look like together.

Enter Pinterest.com. A relatively new social media website that uses pictures instead of words to tell people who you are and it's the perfect place to let your creativity juices flow. Pinterest.com is for style mavens, crafters, readers, bloggers, cooks, artists, moms, dads.... well, just about everybody.

Here is a great explanation that I borrowed (aka stole) from Endless Jubilee:

So. Imagine a place that allows you to "dog ear" pictures of things you find on the internet.... anywhere on the internet, and organize it into categories onto your own little website of sorts. Then you have one easy place to look back at all these wonderful things -- and the images are linked to the site where you found them! Squeal! I know what you're thinking (because I thought it too -- at first).... Isn't this just like bookmarking a page? Um, sort of, but much easier to manage! PLUS, if your friends join in on the fun, you can both see the things you're both loving. Think gift ideas. Think of never being bored ever again.

(For the record I probably wouldn't squeal, but Endless Jubilee is adorable and so it makes sense for her!)

If you've never heard of Pinterest.com then check it out. If you are on Pinterest.com let me know. I want to see your boards!

I am in the middle of redesigning my life so I'm finding Pinterest.com to be a very valuable resource for all things decorating and dreaming. You can check out my pins HERE.

Come join the fun. I'm addicted!! (and I want to suck you in to my addiction so you can be an addict too!)

A cyber friendship - gone wonderfully right.

2011-04-18T22:08:00.000-07:00

Yesterday it finally happened. I got to meet my good friend Jen from DiaryOf1.com. After two years of cyber-stalking each other, she showed up at my door and then sat in my living room for a long while during which time we talked and laughed and put new pieces into our friendship puzzle. It was glorious.

I tried to remember how we found one another. I do remember reading her fabulous blog and leaving a comment and I think there was some sort of contest involved in which I won a great freezer mug and a tape measure, that I guard like the crown jewels. Both are emblazoned with the JETS logo, of course. (Mr. DiaryOf1.com runs TeamMascot.com, a sports merchandise and schwag site and is my go to guy for all things NY JETS.)

Over the last couple of years our friendship has developed online through reading each others posts and commenting. (I know Jen has a lot of readers and I am grateful to have her and you as my two faithful followers.) Being able to put a face with a blog template was really great.

The actual purpose of Jen's visit was to give me some materials for my online lending library at saltandlight3.com. Little did I know..... Tonight I went into the garage to get some meat out of the freezer for dinner. I forgot. There are now 500lbs. of encyclopedias and other books parked on top of my freezer. I guess if I ever want to reach the ice cream again I'd better start cataloging those books. Oy! (Just kidding Jen - I am sooooo grateful!)

The moral of this story is that some cyber friendships can go right and I am so blessed to know Jen.

P.S. Jen is a beautifully talented writer. If you haven't visited her site go now. You won't regret it. www.diaryof1.com

My Journey to Losing My House - Chapter 6

2011-04-18T12:42:00.000-07:00

When my husband proposed to me 8.5 years ago he marked the occasion by carving our initials into a tree. I don't know what those deep cuts look like today, but I know that the tree has been through some serious weather and grown and changed since that lovely summer day.

Today we are still in our house and it's been over a year now since we decided to let it go. This has been a very difficult year. We were notified early last summer that the house would be auctioned off in late November. Then the banking crisis occurred. Like many families we were left in the dark for a very long time. We took no news, as good news and just kept doing our thing - which without a job was not much of anything.

Birthdays, anniversaries, holidays and a whole new year came and went. Everyday was a struggle - not only to keep moving forward but sometimes just to to be motivated to get out of bed. It was not a fun time.

Now the trees are budding again. The spring rains are falling and the promise of a new season is in the air. We are rejoicing in the change because after 18 months of limited part-time work my husband got a full-time job. And it is a good job that will pay the bills and offer us a future. We are so thankful.

Suddenly, our lives have been altered. We can expect regular income and we can begin to think about the future again. It's a strange feeling but one we will happily get used to.

As we move into this new season of life I feel the need to stop and ponder the journey. Without a doubt I am a different person than I was when this experience began. I see the world differently. I see myself differently. I see other people differently.

This change in perspective has profoundly affected my life. First, I have an empathy for others that I never knew before. I truly understand what it means to live day by day, literally. I've walked in those shoes. Second, I realize what I can live without. Which, it turns out, is A LOT. Things that seemed so necessary before are but wisps of air today. And most of those things are not things I ever really needed but the world had convinced me I would die without them. Hmmmm. Finally, I realize that I am much stronger than I ever thought I was and I am well grounded. I really do have a strong foundation - like the house built upon the rock. (Let's all sing together now.....wait, does that make me a wise man?) Don't get me wrong. There were times when I thought I could not go on. Not another step - but lo and behold I didn't die. I'm still here. Hallelujah!

My experiences are indelibly marked on my soul. Like my initials carved in that tree they are now a permanent part of my being. Currently, the cuts are still somewhat raw and exposed. Over time they will change. As the years go by they will become weathered and my bark will heal. But forever my life, like that tree will be different.

I can't say that this has been a good life experience. I am not prepared to see the important lessons as necessary and positive. Not yet at least. But I can begin to see some of the results and see that they are potentially good. I don't know how yet, but I can agree that they have promise and for today, that is all I need.

PROJECT SIMPLIFY - The Epilogue

2011-04-17T13:43:00.000-07:00

It has been two weeks since PROJECT SIMPLIFY ended. In my opinion, the sign of a well done organizing job is how well it is holding up several weeks after it is completed.

I am happy to report that PROJECT SIMPLIFY was a great success in my home. I am still loving my personal workbox system. The boxes are big enough to hold files and papers but small enough that when they get filled up the job is quite manageable to go through them and not be overwhelmed. This is key. Don't you think?

My kid's rooms are great. We have finally found a happy medium between toys, books, clothes and storage. Our new closet shelves are working great and the other day when I had to take some random toys to Girl Scouts for a craft project we really had a hard time finding anything to take because everything we had was useful or wanted. The junk is gone. Amazing.

My kitchen is another area that is now very well organized. I even did a little more cleaning along with adding some handy bins and I am loving the results. I enjoy the space and the open areas but everything I need is still within reach. So nice.

My closet is going to be a constant project. I am loving the organization I did several weeks ago but as we go into the next season here in Central Oregon I will need to stay on top of putting away the winter items and pulling out the summer ones.

The beauty of staying on top of what I have started is that now I have a plan. Based on our Family Purpose Statement (FPS) I can look at an area in our home and decide easily whether to keep or get rid of something. It's like a budget for our stuff. Just as I use our family budget to decide whether to purchase something or not, I can use our FPS to decide if the stuff I have has value or not. So cool.

How is your FPS coming along?

When I started PROJECT SIMPLIFY in March I had just finished the first part of Tsh's book Organized Simplicity. Last week I started reading part two - Ten Days to a Simpler, More Organized Home. I am excited to start going through it tomorrow and getting the rest of the house organized. I'll let you know how it goes.

Week #5 - PROJECT SIMPLIFY - The Results Show

2011-04-08T16:30:00.000-07:00

So my Hot Spot of choice this week was my bathroom. I decided I wanted to go through everything purge. I wanted nothing left that was not usable, practical or necessary. So purge I did.


My first victim - the nail polish bin. OY!

With a daughter of my own, who happens to be 5, I have never bothered to clean out my polish bin. She loves all the colors, but really, who needs all these? Not me.

Only the best colors remain!

Yes, that really is what you think it is.

Soooo organized!!

Boy, what a mess.


Sucess!!

I really am happy with what is left in this cupboard. Just the necessities. I am pretty sure all of it will fit in a medium sized box when I have to pack it all up for moving. That is what I call success. Who needs 12 bottles of half used hotel shampoo anyway? I feel so liberated!

Here's the sad part. I am the only user of this bathroom. All of that trash is mine. Oh, brother!

A whole bag of garbage. How is that possible? For one person. Well good riddance.

Check out the rest of the results around the web HERE.

Week #5 - PROJECT SIMPLIFY

2011-04-04T20:04:00.000-07:00

We're in week 5 of our 5-week project. I can't believe it's gone so fast. Well, this week is for everyone! No excuses!!

Check out HOT SPOT #5! Enjoy!!!!

Week #4 - PROJECT SIMPLIFY - The Results Show

2011-04-02T09:46:00.000-07:00

This was a tough week. My hubby was sick at the beginning of the week, then in the middle we had to drive 7 hours each way to a job interview for him. By the time we got home the rest of us were sick and we've been in bed until today. Whew!

But I knew I had some cleaning to do so here are the results.


Cupboard BEFORE


And AFTER


Our outside fridge BEFORE


And AFTER


Our Pantry - we don't have any space inside so this works well for us.

The messy kitchen

Oy Vey!

And AFTER

Ahhhhh!

Be sure to check out all the other results at: simplemom.net

Week #4 - PROJECT SIMPLIFY

2011-03-28T11:56:00.000-07:00

Here it is - Check it out HOT SPOT #4!

We're in week 4 of our 5-week project. Join in the fun and get organized this spring - spend more time with the people you love, not the stuff you have to do.

Here's a hint......

Week #3 - PROJECT SIMPLIFY - The Results Show

2011-03-24T17:48:00.000-07:00

Just like in week one I wasn't going to do this week's challenge because I just did a major clean up in my kid's rooms about a month ago. I usually send them out with their dad for a day of fun and adventure and then I dive in and throw out old toys, papers, books and go through their clothes. So this week I didn't have any intentions to clean again, but I did ask the kids if they wanted to rearrange their rooms after school on Monday.

Whew! Little did I know........

We worked and vacuumed and sorted and cleaned and worked some more. And the results are fantastic!


K2's messy room (click to enlarge)

K2's CLEAN room!! (click to enlarge)

Beanie's messy room (click to enlarge)

Beanie's CLEAN room!!! (click to enlarge)

My biggest accomplishment this week was building some shelves in each of their closets. I had their clothes hanging up high while they were small because they had a tendency to pull them all off the hangers when I wasn't looking. Now that they are older they can put their own clothes away and hang up their own coats, so I moved everything down to the bottom bar and built some sweet shelves above. A perfect place for bags, swords, dance clothes and cowboy paraphernalia. I love the result. (cost = less than $25 total)

And even though I wasn't going to do a major cleaning we still came up with enough stuff to fill one huge moving box. It's already been delivered to the local charity shop. Whew!

Overall I am very pleased with this week's project. Everything has a place and has been properly labeled (see DVD boxes above) and each child was able to dictate the new layout of their room. I was very surprised at how opinionated my four-year-old was about his room. I'm happy to announce he is quite pleased with the results.

This was definitely a worthwhile project. How is your spring cleaning going?

Week #3 - PROJECT SIMPLIFY

2011-03-21T09:50:00.000-07:00

Here it is folks - especially perfect for spring break (if yours is this week) having the kids home and all.

Check it out HOT SPOT #3!

We're in week 3 of our 5-week project. Join in the fun and get organized this spring - spend more time with the people you love, not the stuff you have to do.

Here's a hint......

Weekend Project - Home Management Notebook

2011-03-19T11:50:00.000-07:00

I have two kids. You'd think that since I have one hand for each of them, I should probably be able guide their activities, provide for their food needs and structure their days.

ARE YOU KIDDING ME?

I can hardly find clean socks for my own feet, let alone manage two other people. I've tried it all. White boards. Calendars. My phone. Pocket planners. Magnetic charts. I have just one word for you. FAILURE.

No, seriously. I'm over five years into this kid thing and I still can't find a good way to remember play dates, birthday parties, appointments and still get my daily work done. It's past pathetic. It's just sad.

Well, you know I've been raving about my new find "Organized Simplicity" by Tsh Oxenreider. And you've seen the great results the last couple of weeks around my house with PROJECT SIMPLIFY. So, in keeping with that theme I am proud to announce that I have found my scheduling bliss.

In chapter 6 of "Oganized Simplicity" the lovely Ms. Oxenreider introduces us all to the Home Management Notebook (HMN). I was wary about a new system at first, but decided to give it a try.

All I can say is "YES!" So here are my notebook ingredients:

1 three-ring binder (mine has the clear plastic on the front)
1 package of tab dividers (I got mine at goodwill for $0.10)
1 pencil / pen zippered pocket
3 or 4 clear plastic sleeves
lined paper

As you can see above, I put my daily docket (downloadable from SimpleMom.net) on the front. I can see what I need to do for the day and pull it out to check of my accomplishments or add more things.

I like to have pretty things around me, so I decorated my binder with some fun pictures on the end and put a picture of something that makes me smile on the back that I can change out.

Inside my notebook I have the following:

zippered pouch for pens and pencils
small calendar
dividers
notebook paper

My calendar doubles as a journal. I like to see a week at a glance and have space to write what we did on a particular day. I keep them as a reminder of our year.

My dividers have space for my daily tasks, weekly cleaning chart, activities calendars, library receipts, grocery list, family purpose statement and notes.

Each day I put my current daily docket on the front of my notebook. The rest of my week is stored behind the daily tab. Next is the weekly tab where I have my weekly cleaning list in a clear plastic sleeve. I like Tsh's idea of using an eraseable marker to keep track of what I want to accomplish that week.

The activities tab is where I keep the calendars I get from the activities we participate in such as AWANA, CBS and the like. These help me know what's expected of each kid at any given event. Behind the library tab I keep a clear plastic sleeve where I store our library receipts so I know which books we have and when they are due. I get this on my computer too but I like having a paper copy and have always seemed to misplace it in the past.

Next is my grocery list. I love being able to have one spot for things I think of and mark whether I have a coupon, what store has the best price, etc. It's so convenient. Finally, I have a section for our Family Purpose Statement and notes. I keep notebook paper and a clear sleeve in the back for receipts, ideas and other goodies.

This is really all I need on a day to day basis. It's not too bulky and I know I have everything I need at my fingertips. I have been using this system for a few weeks now and I LOVE it. I like the simplicity of it and I feel so incredibly organized.

You can obviously customize this system for yourself. You may want other tabs, a babysitters list or a work schedule if you have a job outside the home, a monthly budget or a gift list. Make it your own and have fun. There is nothing better that spending your energy on the people you love instead of the things you have to do. Get started this weekend and be ready for a great new week in just a few hours!

(check out SimpleMom.net in the download section for some great templates to use in your notebook.)

Week #2 - PROJECT SIMPLIFY - The Results Show

2011-03-15T15:49:00.000-07:00

Ok, I went a little ballistic. I had free time before the week's activities really get into full swing so I hopped onto SimpleMom.net and found out what this week's HOT SPOT is. Of course - I knew it was coming but I didn't expect it to be so soon - "Paper Clutter"!!! Nooooooooooo!

So after a successful morning of homeschooling I dived in. There was much to tackle. Here is my desk, which is actually the kitchen table. I move this pile of stuff around the house to any free space and always have to move it for meals and then freak out if anyone touches it. It is the proverbial ball and chain, without a doubt.


My mess. My life is in here somewhere!

Well, I started workboxing with my kids recently. So I thought. Why don't I start workboxing myself? It works!!!! I have 4 main categories - coupons, stuff to do, stuff to keep at an arm's length and papers to file. Here are the results:

My workboxes. Coupons. To Do. My Stuff. To File.

I actually have a great filing system going. It's just always a chore to get the papers from the pile to the file. I seem to misplace them constantly. (Hmmm. I wonder why?) Now everything can go straight into a workbox and then straight to the file once a week or so. I LOVE it!!

No excuses!!

So here is my workspace now -

Wow!

Ok. I feel good. Real good. So I decided to tackle our family desk. It used to be my desk, then I got a laptop. Then it was my husband's desk. Then he got a laptop. Now it is just a junk magnet that the kids have to wade through to get to the desktop to do their school work on.

Well, I got to work on it. Mostly the stuff was my hubby's - fishing hats, line, boxes and reels (He's a fishing guide so I'm lucky there were no blood stains under all that. Just kidding.) Random papers. A cardboard box to hold our envelopes and directories. Cords with no known use. Not good. But alas.....

Hey look, we own a keyboard.

Guess what? I had some time to spare. So I thought of my next personal hot spot of paper clutter - my recipe books. I want to make so many yummy things but just seem to toss the recipes I cut from magazines onto the shelf and they never make it to a book or box. Oy!

Problem solved. Two lovely notebooks - a gift to me! and some seriously organized recipes. Watch out St. Patty's Day - corned beef is definitely on the menu now that I can actually find the recipe!

Aren't they purty?

YUMMY!!

Wow! I wonder what other little areas I'll find to organize in my free time this week. Yikes! I'm so organized I actually have free time. This is cool!

Week #2 - PROJECT SIMPLIFY

2011-03-14T13:41:00.000-07:00

Check out SimpleMom.net for the second "Hot Spot" in PROJECT SIMPLIFY. We're in week 2 of our 5-week project. Go ahead and jump in. Join us for some spring cleaning!!

Here's a hint......

Doh! Admit it, you saw that one coming!

Living the Simple Life in 2011

2011-03-13T11:49:00.000-07:00

I didn't set out to get more organized in 2011. I didn't make a New Year's resolution to order my life and the lives of my family. But in the last few weeks I have stumbled upon some wonderful new tricks and tools for doing just that.

To begin, I cannot speak highly enough about Tsh Oxenreider's new book "Organized Simplicity" (Better Way Home Books). This little gem is a virtual treasure trove of good ideas and simple solutions to some of life's challenges.

Getting organized has never been so easy

The great thing about this book is that it isn't a call for all of us to become Martha Stewarts with complicated ideas and multi-million dollar craft rooms. Rather, it is a guide to de-cluttering our lives that talks more about the reasons why it is important to be organized, live simply, get out of debt and live on a budget than a how-to manual.

Part One in "Organized Simplicity" talks about living a simple life in the real world. Part Two is a ten-day plan to getting organized. You can do it all or pick and choose the parts you need the most help with.

Right out of the box the two most helpful things that I found in this book were the Family Purpose Statement and the Home Management Notebook. There are also some very simple worksheets that can simplify your life and some great ideas for unifying your family and working out a zero-based budget (I highly recommend this if you aren't already using one.) You can also visit Tsh's wonderful blog to download some of these helpful tools - SimpleMom.net

Our Family Purpose Statement

You can learn more about this great book and get your own copy HERE.

So my house is really seeing some great organizing results, but so is our homeschool. I recently discovered WORKBOXING over at Confessions of a Homeschooler. This discovery has put us on the organized fast-track for sure.

My students are still young - Pre-school and Kindergarten and they use a mixture of official curriculum and various other materials. But I was struggling to find how to use our time wisely and efficiently. That is until I discovered WORKBOXING.

Our Pre-K & Kindergarten Workboxes

The great thing about homeschooling is you get to do what is best for you and your students. No program is one-size-fits-all. So I modified this one to work for us, but it will grow with us as my students advance in their studies and in their abilities to work independently.

The basic concept of WORKBOXES can be found HERE. For me the best thing has been the spreadsheet / lesson plan and the flexibility of the system. I am so happy about our progress the last few weeks. We have all made some great strides in learning, frustration management, organization and expectations.

Weekly lesson plans - I use colored tabs in their workbooks - each day is color coded.

If you have been thinking about homeschooling or even if you want to do some extra learning over the summer this is a great place to start - get organized and get learning. It's easy and fun and very effective.

I highly recommend these two new resources for getting organized in your home and in your homeschool. Have fun and let me know how it is going for you.

Week #1 - PROJECT SIMPLIFY - The Results Show

2011-03-12T17:28:00.000-08:00

So, I wasn't going to participate in this week's challenge because I just cleaned all my closets and drawers after Christmas. A mere 2 months ago.

But then I started thinking about my clothes and my stuff and my deep desire to simplify my life and I jumped in.

Who knew I would find so much to purge? The new bins in my drawers have created amazing organization. In my closet I decided NOT to turn my hangers around on things I might or might not wear. I just got rid of it if I had a questions about wearing it. Maybe next time I'll try turning the hangers around. I feel so good about what I've kept and a lot lighter too. This was a great use of my time and energy this week.

Here are the results:

Here are some great suggestions for keeping your clothing organized and relevant (from SimpleMom.net)

1. Keep a list of what you’d like to have. (I LOVE this idea!!)

You know what it’s like… You’re getting dressed for church or a date with your husband, and you think, “I really wish I had a short-sleeved shirt in blue.” But when you’re actually in the store, you’re overwhelmed and your brain flatlines.
Jot down a few items on your wish list — keep it practical, of course — and tuck it in your purse. Then when you’re out, you’ll have a better chance of remembering what you do need, and not accidentally bring home a 12th pair of khaki shorts.

2. Flip the hangers.

Several of you mentioned this on Monday, and I had completely forgotten about this trick (so thank you for the reminder). If you’re not sure whether you truly do wear an item, flip the hanger around. Leave it that way until you wear it. If it’s still flipped backwards the next time you declutter your closet (in six months or so), you don’t wear it. Chances are, you don’t need it.
Mandi had a great idea and turned all her hangers around, so she could see how often she wears everything. As she says in her vlog, most of us tend to wear 20 percent of our clothes 80 percent of the time.

3. Keep the self-esteeming clothes in eyesight.

I used to think that if I kept my jeans from college in plain view, I’d be motivated to get back in shape so I could wear them again. Instead, it depressed me.
If you’re pregnant, just had a baby, or breastfeeding, it’s okay that a lot of your clothes don’t fit well. As mamas, our bodies ebb and flow throughout the seasons. We were made that way. Tuck those clothes you think you’ll wear again eventually out of immediate view — either farther back on the dowel rod, or folded and tucked on the upper shelf.
Don’t store them so far out of sight you forget about them. Just tuck them away so that when you open your closet door, you first see your happy clothes.

4. Invest in better, not more.

This is a mantra throughout my whole book, and you’ll hear me say it more than once during Project: Simplify. Go for quality over quantity! I’d rather have two pair of jeans that fit me perfectly than ten that fit me so-so.
If you have ten pairs, chances are you grab the same two anyway.
This is challenging for me sometimes, since I love thrift store shopping and get 90 percent of my clothing there. If an item nearly fits, or is almost your color, don’t buy it. It’s not worth the precious real estate in your closet.

Happy De-cluttering Funki Planet friends!!!!!

STAY TUNED FOR NEXT WEEKS PROJECT

Week #1 - PROJECT SIMPLIFY

2011-03-07T13:12:00.000-08:00

Check out SimpleMom.net for the first "Hot Spot" in PROJECT SIMPLIFY. You can get organized this spring with this simple 5-week plan. Join us for some spring cleaning!!

Here's a hint......

Spring is coming (REALLY!) Get Organized with Project Simplify!

2011-02-25T11:48:00.000-08:00

Spring is coming - even to the high desert of Oregon. Today it is snowing and 15 degrees but the days are getting longer and my inner clock is counting down the days until the earth bursts forth in spring. Ok, if you live here you know that might be sometime in May, but I will still cling to the hope of blossoms and baby birds.

In preparation for the coming season I have been having the urge to clean, downsize and simplify my life. I started cleaning things out yesterday - the laundry room - I mean how many bud vases does one actually need? The kitchen - I found several bags of chips, pretzels and other snacks with one or two items left in them - out they go.

Today I have my eye on my bedroom - I think it's time to get rid of my swimsuit from three years ago and a plethora of t-shirts that have paint, oil and other stains of unknown origin on them. And the books next to my bed. I do want to read all of them but I probably won't get to all 40 of them any time soon. I think I need a lending library for myself.

Funny thing, I stumbled across a month-long endeavor called PROJECT SIMPLIFY over at SimpleMom.net. I'm going to join in the fun during the month of March in an effort to get organized and simplify.

You should join in too! Check back here to find out how I am doing starting on March 7.

Imported from Detroit!

2011-02-16T15:57:00.000-08:00

The beauty of having your own blog is you get to put whatever you want up - so I am.

I LOVE this commercial. It makes me proud to be an American. Whenever I see it I feel empowered.

ROCK ON!

Some good news from AWANA (all kids are accounted for) - We have a WINNER!!

2011-01-27T21:28:00.000-08:00

Tonight was the AWANA Grand Prix. Beanie and K2 both entered cars in the race. Out of 35 cars Beanie won 1st Place!! Her car had the fastest time and she brought home the trophy. We are so proud.

In the heats where they raced together Beanie and K2 took 1st and second every time. We're pretty sure he came in 4th overall.

Beanie was over the moon - it's so fun to see a kid succeed!

Way to go Beanie (and Daddy - he designed the car)!

Kid dates - The stuff memories are made of

2011-01-25T16:07:00.000-08:00

Do you go on dates with your kids? Does your husband take your daughter out? Do you take your son on excursions?

We try to take our kids out on regular dates. Beanie and K2 are only 18 months apart so they spend a lot of time together. It's almost like having twins sometimes. But we feel it is important to take them out separately. There is something to be said about making a child feel special and important apart from their siblings. Dates are a great way to build confidence and find out the inner feeling of your child, no matter what age they are.

I recently had a date with my son on a lovely January day that afforded us an opportunity to be outside and run and play. We took our Nerf guns (after buying plenty of ammo at WalMart) to the park and spent a couple of hours running, jumping and exploring.

We were big game hunters, cowboy and cowgirl, he was a jet pilot and I was the passenger on a flight to Africa. We stalked animals, camped in the forest and investigated interesting finds all in one afternoon.

There were no phone calls to make or interrupt us, no emails to answer, no shopping lists to take care of, no laundry baskets to attend to. There was just me and my little boy throwing all our cares to the wind and enjoying one another.

Those are the days that memories are made of. No matter how big he gets or how far apart we end up I will always have the distinct memories of that day. Me, the only mom a the park stretched out on her belly trying to take out a Buzz Lightyear figurine in the dirt. My son smiling from ear to ear as he shoots a bear from behind a tree. Us at opposite ends of the park stalking a tiger via our walkie-talkies.

Life is tough and challenges are par for the course, but a day with your child, one-on-one is a priceless treasure that moms and dads alike can experience and keep in their mental scrapbooks forever.

K2 is only 3 so it's never too early to start this tradition. Memories are what life is all about. Start making some today!

Another fun game for kids - Tumblin' Monkeys

2011-01-02T23:04:00.000-08:00

We are a game playing family. Card games, board games, computer games, we love them all. This Christmas there were many games wrapped under the tree but one quickly rose to the top of the pile as an instant favorite - Tumblin' Monkeys.

Based on the classic game Kerplunk, Tumblin' Monkeys is a wonderful game for younger children and fun for older kids and parents too. There is no reading involved and instead of dropping a bunch of marbles on the ground the monkey's, who sport curly tails, fall down the tree as the sticks are removed. Sometimes they catch and sometimes they don't.

This game is recommended for ages 5 and up but younger kids will like this game too. It will also help teach colors and counting.

The official statement is:

Tumblin' Monkeys is the classic game of skill and action that's easy to learn and fun to play! Swing up to a tree full of monkeys - each player takes turns removing the colored sticks, and the one who collects the fewest monkeys is the winner. For ages 5 years and up.

You can find this game at Amazon.com for about $10.

Kindergarten - 1/2 done

2011-01-02T22:46:00.000-08:00

We started homeschooling at the end of August - Kindergarten. Now it is January and we are half-way through our curriculum for the year. I am really enjoying the program we chose for and I think Beanie is enjoying it too.

The beauty of doing this ourselves is that I can tailor the learning to fit my girl. We do not do everything everyday. But I get to choose what we are going to learn and that has made a big difference for both of us. Depending on our moods, daily activity schedule and supplies on hand we do a mind dance that incorporates things to make learning fun and effective.

I have also found some new materials that have been wonderful additions to our prescribed curriculum.

My current favorite addition is called READ - Read, Explore and Discover. It is a workbook with stories, worksheets, activities and comprehension questions. Beanie feels so good when she reads a story. I feel good when she comprehends what she has read and she loves the activity pages. This has been a great find.

As we start the second half of this adventure I am excited to see how the rest of the year plays out. I know this - homeschooling is a great fit for our family.

Resolution Encouragement - Fitness!

2011-01-02T21:59:00.000-08:00

Ah, it is that wonderful time of year when you vow to get into better shape, eat healthier or drop a size or two before summer. You could insert anything here really, run a marathon, get into your wedding dress again, stop eating fries......you get the idea.

Resolutions of this sort are tough. I do not know why - except maybe we are naturally lazy. I have no magic solution but I do have some encouragement and assistance to offer.

My picks to help you stick with your health & fitness resolutions.

1. There are two books you should read this year if you are through with dieting. Both are by Chantel Hobbs a regular gal who lost over 200 lbs. and has kept it off. (You can read more about her HERE) The first book is "Never Say Diet" and it offers some of the best advice on changing your life I have ever read. It is common sense that everyone can implement. I believe this book could help change your life forever.

When you have apply that book to your life go out and pick up "One Day Way". It is a great reminder that change does not happen overnight, but it does happen one day at a time and that is all we get anyway so the playing field is level. This book is great encouragement for keeping it real and not getting discourage because we're getting ahead of ourselves. The principles in this book really helped me to make concrete changes last year that I started in January 2010. In January 2011 I am still living that changed life.

The thing I love about these books is that they are not gimmicky diet books, they do not make silly promises. Instead, Chantel uses her own experience to encourage and empower readers to make real lifestyle changes that will last long after 2011 is just a memory.

You can read my book review of "One Day Way" from 2010 HERE.

2. I used to be a group fitness trainer. I taught classes and did a lot of research, reading and reviewing of fitness videos and workouts. I often get asked what my favorites are and I have a few. For overall workouts I highly recommend the Biggest Loser DVDs. My favorites are Cardio Max and Power Sculpt. They come with three levels that you can add to your routine as you gain strength and stamina. These workouts suitable for beginner to intermediate fitness levels. I still use them on occasion and add weights. These are available online and at local retailers.

I am a Jillian Michaels fan. So I always recommend her 30 Day Shred DVD. It is great for any fitness level and will challenge you and make you sweat. They are also 30 minutes long so they are great for busy schedules.

For intermediate to advanced fitness levels I recommend Jillian's No More Trouble Zones and Banish Fat Boost Metabolism DVDs. I use these videos regularly and I ALWAYS sweat. They are fast paced and fun (about 45 minutes each) and really get the blood pumping.

3. If you are ready to take your workout to the next level and want to do something that will really transform your body I recommend P90X. You may have seen the infomercials on TV late at night. Tony Horton is responsible for this fitness craze and I can attest that it really works. It is HARD and it takes commitment. The workouts are 60 - 75 minutes per day 6 days a week for 90 days. My husband and I are on our second round of P90X and I have never felt better. It is not a weight loss program, although that can be a side affect, but it will change the way you look and feel like nothing else you've tried.

P90X is serious business and it is not for the faint of heart. Bring it!!

Are you trying something new this year? Let me know what it is. Do you have a recommendation for others? Leave a comment so all can see. 2011 is your year for being your very best physically. You can do it!!

Homemade Play Clay - a fun activity for Christmas break!

2010-12-19T15:57:00.000-08:00

Looking for something fun to do with the kids over the break? Try this - Homemade Play Clay.

Recipe:

In a pan mix:
1 1/4 cups of flour
1/4 cup salt
1-2 Tbsp. cream of tartar

Combine and add to the pan:
1 cup water
1 Tbsp. oil
8-10 drops of food coloring

Heat mixture over medium heat, stirring constantly, until it stiffens and forms a ball. Spoon onto a lightly floured surface and knead 1-2 minutes until well mixed (Be careful - it will be hot!!) Store in an air-tight plastic bag.

Simple Ingredients

Flour, salt, cream of tartar

Mix water, oil and food coloring before pouring into the pan

Stir over medium heat

Mixture will start to stiffen and form a ball

Knead on a lightly floured surface until clay-like. Store in an air-tight plastic bag.

Have fun! This is an easy craft and the recipe does well doubled. Merry Christmas!!

My Journey to Losing My House - Chapter 5

2010-11-19T22:10:00.000-08:00

Last night at AWANA my little Beanie was given a Gideon bible. You would have thought she got $100 bill. It is orange which is just icing on the cake for her. This morning she crawled into bed with me and said she was looking for Corinthians. As a new reader she is really starting to explore words and has started trying to read everything so I was not very surprised that she was exploring her new treasure.

We opened it up and found the table of contents. I taught her what a table of contents is and how to use it. Then we found 1 Corinthians. We also read the passage in John where her memory verse from last night is found. Her eyes danced like nutcracker ballerinas. It was awesome.

There was something really wonderful and organic about teaching her about how books work, what chapters are and how to find things in her new orange bible. It got me to thinking that regardless of what is going on in my world real life is still moving forward.

They are supposed to auction off our house in 10 days. We haven't heard anything in several months. (*Therefore, we have no plans to leave or move until we get notice that we are supposed to do something.) There is a lot of upheaval in the foreclosure market nowadays and we are completely in the dark. We have no plan either. I liken us to the Israelites, wandering around in the desert. We are just watching the pillar of smoke (aka GOD), waiting for Him to move.

Can you imagine living in the desert, waiting for and pillar of smoke (or fire) to move? Can you imagine not knowing from day to day whether you will spend the night in the same place or pack up and move somewhere new? There would be no opportunity to put down roots anywhere. You wouldn't be able to open a shop, plant crops, settle in.

That does not mean that life would be on hold. Babies would still be born, children would keep growing and learning and the everyday tasks of life would still need attention. I am sure more than one wandering Hebrew wondered "what's next?" and "when?"

For me, the "what's next?" and the "when?" is not worth worrying about. For I truly believe that I am more valuable to Him than a flock of sparrows. (Matt. 10:31) The house will soon go away and I will live somewhere else. But while I am waiting real life is moving forward. My children are growing and learning. I cannot wait for permanence to teach them about life, about where to find Corinthians in the bible. How to tie their shoes, clean their rooms and be polite. I may be waiting, but life isn't.

That in itself seems to really help keep my priorities in order. It isn't about what's going to happen. It is about the life I am living while I wait for God to move. So I will keep teaching, learning, growing, sharing, giving and loving. For those are what I will take with me when I cross over Jordan. And those are what I want the Bean and K2 to take too. Not houses, not things, not economies. But character, integrity and lives well lived.

You can call me DR. Mom

2010-11-08T18:26:00.000-08:00

Last week I made a pumpkin cheesecake and offered it to my friends on Facebook. My friend Julie accepted in jest but later that night I took her 4 slices for her family and just showed up on her doorstep.

Oh fate.

Little did I know what was going on in her house. Little did I know her countertop would transform my world and cause me to go over the edge.

She invited me in to see what she was working on..........get ready for it...............COUPONING!!

Fifteen minutes later I was converted, hook, line and sinker.

There has always been that one thing that I liked to think separated me. I mean, I know I am a stay-at-home mom. I bake. I homeschool. I supper swap. I've been known to scrapbook. I blog. But there was that one thing that kept me from reaching Donna Reed status. Coupon clipping.

Well, no more. I am a full fledged, coupon clipping fiend. I've got the notebook. I check the blogs. I hoard the paper. I have a system. Agggggggggghhhhhhhhhh! How did this happen in one short week?

Nobody ever told me it was so addictive. I mean seriously. I just posted my day on Julie's Facebook page - IN COUPONS. How much I saved at each store. What I got back. How I worked the system. Really?

Well, there is no turning back now. I am done. My life will never be the same again. I have officially made the transition from psudo-mom to DR. Mom. I have been Donna Reed-ified (DR.). If you come to my door, be prepared to see me in full regalia including an apron (you can hold a lot of coupons in those pockets) and wielding scissors.

And watch out retail America - Here I Come!!!

My $12.50 haul from Albertsons

Notebook of Champions!!

I lost my kid.........at AWANA

2010-10-21T22:53:00.000-07:00

If you have kids and those kids have ever done AWANA then you know the chaos that is pick-up after an evening of bible verses, AWANA bucks, crafts, games and music.

If not, you really haven't lived.

It was into this chaos that I fought my way upstream to the Cubbies room and signed out my youngest. I then turned around to find my oldest standing behind me. Ok, problem #1. My oldest had brought a friend and the friend was nowhere in sight. This becomes a major problem when you, Mrs. Adult, are suddenly responsible for said friend. Leaving without her is not an option.

At this point I tried not to yell, but firmly asked - where's S? My oldest looked a little like she didn't know what I was talking about and then the light bulb went off and she turned to fight her way back upstream to find her friend.

Feeling slightly panicked that there was a four-year-old, who had never been to AWANA before and who had been looking more than slightly like a deer in the headlights at the beginning of the evening, was missing, overtook my sense of rationality. I, Mrs. Adult, instructed my youngest, who is all of three, to stand against the wall and wait for me. What was I thinking?

I wasn't, it's obvious.

After fighting my way upstream I found my oldest and her friend and their teacher. I did a quick check to make sure everyone had a good time, did well in class and had turned in all their bucks. Of course, my pride and joy hadn't so we had to find her envelope and make a deposit. All the while my youngest is, in theory, standing against the wall waiting for us.

I suck at the theoretical. After exiting the classroom with my oldest and her friend we returned to the scene of my crime only to find that my youngest had disappeared. Really? What part of don't move doesn't he understand. Problem #2.

Back upstream we went, searching for a small boy in a blue vest, looking like about 10 other small boys in blue vests. Searching in this room and that room, outside, on the play structure, even in the kitchen produced no results. I had lost my baby.... at AWANA.

Now losing a boy at AWANA, when you really think about it, is kind of silly. It's church for goodness sake. But there are cars, unfamiliar people, a dark parking lot and I really wasn't thinking about the silliness of it all. Instead I was starting to panic, really panic about losing my dear, sweet cowboy.

So, if at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Right? Somehow thinking that it would work this time, I told the girls to stand by the planter outside and instructed them not to move. I then rushed back inside and did another fly by in search of a small boy in a blue vest. No luck.

Back outside I went and directed the girls to our van in which dad was waiting. (No comment.) I lightly stated that I had lost our son and was going back in to look for him. Not waiting for any remarks from the peanut gallery I hustled back inside.

The halls were starting to empty and I was finally able to peak into some of the rooms I couldn't get near earlier. And there, sitting in his classroom, playing with play dough was my small boy wearing his blue vest. I called his name and his teacher remarked as he went by, "Didn't you check out once already?" (Again, no comment.)

There were no tears, no questions, just a "Hey mom" as we walked triumphantly to the car. My heart was finally beginning to slow to a normal pace as we reached our vehicle.

Now, if you ever thought one compassionate girl was a hand full, try putting 2 in a car while in the middle of small drama - that's a lot of mini hormones. I really feel for those of you with multiple girls in your family. Whew! You would have thought we re-unified Germany or something with all the love that small boy got as he buckled into his car seat.

Well, all's well that ends well. We made it home with both our own kids and one friend was returned safely to her abode. I almost had a small heart attack but was spared that AND a complete freak out in front of the AWANA staff. I assure you that would not have been pretty.

Now everyone is tucked into bed and I am sitting here wondering why and how I thought I wanted a big family. Well I'll tell you what, not without a long rope, and a whistle, and a flag, like those little Asian tour guides use, and walkie-talkies, and, well you get the picture. I need some rest now. I'm slightly overwhelmed. If you have more than three kids I humbly bow at your feet. Good-night!

The Joy of Homeschooling - Outside!!

2010-10-20T16:38:00.000-07:00

Today was a beautiful day in our neighborhood. Fall has arrived, the trees are turning, the air is warm in the sun and crisp in the shade. So, we decided to do school outside. I kicked it in my lounge chair while Beanie practiced her letters, spelling and drawing. Ahhhhhh! This is why I do this, to change it up, to do something a little different and to enjoy God's creation while we learn and grow together. Today we learned about our 5 senses. What better place to do it than outside in nature?

When I meet up with friends they inevitably ask, "How is the home schooling going?" Well, this is my answer - Awesome! Everyday is different, we get to go at our own pace (which is pretty fast right now) and I get to be there for all the light bulb moments. There is nothing better than seeing the light bulb go off in Beanie's head when she gets a new concept. I wouldn't miss this for anything. And to be able to do it inside, outside, at the museum, in the pool and at the park. How could I not find joy in this great adventure? This is definitely what I signed up for.

Just in time for cooler weather..... Cappucino Mix

2010-10-16T14:57:00.000-07:00

I really like a blog called "Everything in Moderation". I found this recipe on there this week and wanted to share it with you. Be sure to check out the other recipes on this site as they are fantastic!!

Just in time for cooler weather is this Cappucino Mix recipe.

Give it a try!

Happy Birthday to ME!!!

2010-10-04T09:55:00.000-07:00

It's my birthday! My 40th birthday. And I am so glad to reach this milestone. Thinking back on the last four decades I am so grateful for my life:

0-10: I was well loved, did great kid things, was painfully shy and met Jesus. I got a brother and was a roller skating fiend! I also met my husband, but more about that later. Best memories: Skiing at Mt. Bachelor and playing baseball in our front yard.

11-20: My world exploded when my parents decided to get divorced, but my extended family stepped in, Mama D, Q-ball, Nana, Papa. I went to high school, had a very memorable first boyfriend (Mr. K), met my BFFs (Big Mac & Buttercup), played sports, was involved in youth group and got accepted to college. I also got a couple more brothers. It was a tumultuous and important decade. Best memories: Sunday night water balloon fights in the neighborhood and boogeyboard boyfriends.

21-30: I spread my wings to fly, traveled the world, got two degrees, met many many people who would influence the rest of my life, had a few false starts in the love department and lived in some pretty amazing places. I have to admit I was happy to leave that decade behind. Best memory: Fresh pow pow at St. Moritz in Switzerland and Christmas in Vancouver, Canada.

31-40: Life started to fall into place. I met my husband (again) after 20 years of not seeing each other. Eloped. Started a family. Bought a house. Learned to fly fish. As a family we went on some excellent adventures and created a life together that is meaningful, memorable and sacred. All the life experiences before this decade allowed me to live fully in this one and it was a gift that I thank God for each day. I am happy to move to the next decade and have wonderful memories for this one. Best memories: Marrying my sweet baboo and the birth of Beanie and the birth of K2. (duh!)

So here's to the next 10 years. Who knows what will happen but I'm excited to find out!!

New Singing Science CD - for learners of all ages

2010-09-30T07:56:00.000-07:00

I am pleased to announce the release of a much anticipated release of the All Around Us - Singing Science CD. This is a great new way to teach and learn about the world All Around Us!!!

The brainchild of two home school moms this CD teaches students important science concepts through music. So creative!!

Songs include:

1. All Around Us	2. Days of Creation
3. Continents and Oceans	4. Photosynthesis Plant Food Factory
5. The Planets	6. Rock Song
7. Prime Meridian/Equator	8. Five to Be Alive
9. Classification System	10. Five Kingdoms
11. The Vertebrate Song	12. Insect Song
13. Colors of the Rainbow	14. All Around Us - Reprise

You can find out more HERE.

Be sure to pick up your copy today!! It will make a great Christmas gift, birthday gift and addition to any musical library.

My Father's World - Kindergarten Curriculum

2010-09-13T21:32:00.000-07:00

Many people have been asking me what we are using for school this year. I am pleased to announce that we are using My Father's World Kindergarten Curriculum.

In June I attended our state home school conference and was able to see, touch, feel, review and critique all of the curriculum I had heard about and had been considering. I went in thinking I was going to go down one path and came out with a completely different direction in mind.

Choosing curriculum, especially in the beginning of the home schooling journey can be overwhelming. Just trying to do research on the computer and listening to others talk about what they use is enough to drive you crazy. For pre-school I put together my own mixture of workbooks, videos, manipulatives and games. But for Kindergarten I was in the market for an actual curriculum.

My husband and I have decided to use an eclectic mixture of materials for our children. This means we want to mix the main schools of thought, classical, Charlotte Mason and unit studies - all with a biblical worldview.

It was the conference and a couple of breakout sessions done by David Hazell, one of the creators of My Father's World, that really sent me down this new path. Not only was David a great speaker, but he also really helped to clarify the why and how of curriculum for me. He was normal, funny and his explanations for why My Father's World (MFW) has developed the curriculum they have made total sense to me.

I was excited all summer to use these materials and after starting school a few weeks ago I am very happy with my decision. The MFW materials are all inclusive. They are designed to be 90 minutes long and they include the following:

Easy-to-use Teacher's Manual
Beautiful, realistic, full-color MFW Alphabet Flashcards
Student Materials include:
Student Worksheets
Teaching charts
Game cards
Monthly calendars
Short vowel song cards
100 chart for math

I personally like having a plan laid out for me. I like knowing what we are doing each day and I enjoy the fact that I can adjust the speed of working through the curriculum to fit my learner. She not only enjoys it but looks forward to doing a little bit more each day.

If you are thinking about what curriculum to use for your home school learner I highly recommend My Father's World.

Fall Crafting Idea - Easy Window Treatments

2010-09-08T17:54:00.000-07:00

I like window treatments. I think they make rooms complete. I like them in pretty fabrics. When they are done right it doesn't matter if they are modern or traditional. They just look good. But I also think that window treatments are one of the hardest things to decide on in a home - (especially DIY treatments.)

I think if you can get the paint right everything else comes pretty easily, except the window treatments. I recently left a window uncovered for almost a year trying to get it right. Finally, I made a decision and everything turned out quite beautifully.

If you think that good looking window treatments have to be expensive or difficult I am here to change your mind. Here are a couple of easy projects that anyone can do. One requires no sewing!

No-Sew Box Valance:

1 sheet of r-tech insulation (from the hardware store - 1 inch thick)

Cut 1 front piece to the length and height of your window

Cut 2 side pieces and 1 top piece to match - you can determine the depth (10-12 inches is pretty standard)

You can glue the pieces together if you want or just duct tape them. I did both.

You should end up with a three sided box.

Cover your box with the fabric of your choice. Secure with straight pins. Finally, attach to the wall with L-brackets. I purchased the chocolate curtains you see here and sewed tie-backs in matching fabric (you can buy them too!)

This project took about 3 hours to complete. I would rate it as easy.

Simple Valance:

This is a simple sewing project that requires only a straight stitch.

Using your favorite fabric, fold over the bottom and side edges about 1/2 inch and iron flat.
Sew using a straight stitch.
Fold over the top edge 5-6 inches (you can determine the height of the valance by playing with the top edge.)
Sew 2 lines of straight stitches. One at the bottom of the fold and one a few inches higher (this is where you will put your curtain rod through).

It makes a lovely valance.

If you want a more modern look only use enough fabric to cover the window. If you want a more traditional look use more fabric and scrunch it on the rod. (double the length of the window is a good rule of thumb but less works too.)

This project is easy for anyone who can sew a straight stitch.

Scarf Valance:

Use the instructions for the simple valance above.
Using your simple valance as a guide, cut 3-4 triangles of fabric (be sure to leave enough room to fold over the edges, iron down and sew.)
When you line the triangles up the way you want them, use a straight stitch to attach them to the top of the simple valance. (I made mine a little longer than the valance so the points hang slightly below.)

Here I used a complimentary fabric and I love the end result.

I would rate this project as intermediate.

I hope you try one of these projects for your own home soon. Be sure to let me know if you have any questions. Have fun!!!!

Game Night is for Little Kids Too!

2010-08-23T17:12:00.000-07:00

If you have little kids, ages 3-5, it can be difficult to find games that they can understand, play and enjoy. If you want to have game nights that everyone in your family can enjoy check these out.....

Sequence for Kids

This is a great game that little kids can play because it uses animal pictures, teaches colors and helps early readers as the name of each animal is printed on the cards. This is also a quick game. The goal is to get 4 in a row on the board. Using the animal cards each player gets to put a chip on the animal that matches the card in their hand. Kids only have to hold 3 cards at a time and can get the 4 in a row rather quickly, so it doesn't take a lot of time. It is good for 2-4 players and is recommended for ages 3-8.

S'Match

This game combines classic memory with colors, numbers and categories. My kids love the spinning wheel. Since buying this game we've played it more than any other game we own. It comes out at least once a week, sometimes much more. The object is to get matches based on whatever you spin - color, category or number. It teaches easy counting and number recognition, colors and categorizing. If you need to give a give I recommend this game.

Family game night is a great way to learn, laugh and play all at the same time. Here are just a couple of ways to do that with even the littlest members of your family.

Bible Lessons For All Ages - What's In The Bible?

2010-08-22T20:17:00.000-07:00

As a parent of two young children it can be difficult to find and teach bible lessons that are age appropriate. We read the Bible together, but how do we teach what the Bible is about to small kids? How do we make Bible learning fun, interesting and something that they want to know more about?

Enter "What's In The Bible?" the new video series from Veggie Tales creator Phil Vischer. It is fantastic. So far there are three volumes that start in the Beginning and go up to the Israelites wandering in the desert. An amazing mixture of puppets, songs, cartoons and kids, these videos have something for everyone of every age.

My kidlets are only 3 and 5 (as of today!). Honestly, they do not get all of the concepts in these videos, but that is the beauty of this series. It is great for kids of all ages and it will grow with my kids as they grow and mature in their faith.

I plan on using these videos for years to come and they will make a great compliment to our bible lessons throughout the school year. The songs are great and the concepts are timeless.

Volume 1: In the Beginning addresses - Who wrote the Bible? How does it affect our lives?

Volume 2: Let My People Go addresses - Who chose the books in the Bible? What is God's "rescue plan" and why do we need rescuing?

Volume 3: Wanderin' in the Desert addresses - What is a "Pentateuch," and why does it have so many weird rules?!

Each volume also contains a bonus short that addresses character - kindness, gentleness, patience.

My kids love Buck Denver - the host throughout the series and look forward to watching these creative and fun bible lessons. I am sure your kids will too!

You can find out more at What's In the Bible?

Don't miss out on this great series for your kids!

A fun party alternative - Cake Pops

2010-08-22T19:23:00.000-07:00

We had a birthday party at our house recently. I was all ready to make cupcakes when I stumbled on a fun and easy alternative. Cake Pops! (courtesey of Bakerella.com)

Cake Pops are basically cake and frosting mixed together then rolled into balls, frozen and topped with candy melts or chocolate and your favorite sprinkle or nonpareil.

They are not only easy, they are loved by all. I will let you get the recipe HERE and then you can see how I changed it to suit our needs.

As you can see I made a variety of cake balls and none of them were red velvet. I made Funfetti, lemon and chocolate cakes and used cream cheese, lemon and fudge frosting respectively. Next I froze the balls and then took them out and spooned the melted candy over the top and quickly added the nonpareils before the candy hardened. Finally, I put them back in the freezer overnight.

When I was ready to put them on the sticks I took them out of the freezer and let them sit for just a few minutes, then stuck the lollipop sticks (available at Michael's) in the bottom and put them in floral blocks. To make the floral blocks more presentable I wrapped mine in tissue paper and tied the ends with ribbon to make them look like pieces of candy. All in all they turned out great.

The number and name tags were downloaded from The TomKat Studio's Etsy store. They will send you a file of any name and age you give them and you can print the tags on your own paper and cut them out however you'd like. I cut mine in circles and squares and then cut slits at the top and bottom to be able to slide them onto the sticks.

(Be sure to visit The TomKat Studio for a ton of beautiful and fun party ideas.)

Ultimately, these cake pops (which you could serve as bon bons as well, turned a so-so kid party in to a major to-do. And they were so easy it was silly.

I hope you try these sometime soon and enjoy an amazing party of your own.

Football Season is HERE!!!

2010-08-15T12:50:00.000-07:00

It's here. It's finally here. Football season. My favorite team starts playing tomorrow night and I can't wait. Since I was a kid I've loved the NY Jets. Why? I have no idea. But I'm committed, through the good times and the bad (and there have been a lot of those).

Anyway, it's here and I'm stoked!!

Need your favorite team's latest jersey or a keychain for your brother's birthday? Check out www.teammascot.com. They've got it all!!

A couple more things for my list......

2010-08-13T21:07:00.000-07:00

So I thought of a couple more things for my birthday list. It seems that most of what I want is cooking related. Go figure.

These are such cute mixing bowls: (These have been purchased!!! I am so excited. Thanks, Mac!)

I think the kids would love eggs made like this:

I would love pancakes made like this!!

I've also been dying for a mandoline:

This just seems handy. For pot pies, fruit pies and enchilada pies, just to name a few.

Now this is pretty, different and lovely.

Finally, I've really been wanting a new tea kettle. One that isn't silver. So many choices. I really like the Rachel Ray one (seen here in green).

Getting Older.........

2010-08-12T16:10:00.000-07:00

My adorable daughter is turning 5 next week. It is amazing and wonderful and astounding all at the same time. She is no longer a little girl. Now she is a girl. Funny, beautiful and smart. Most importantly she is very interesting. She has a great personality and incredible insights into the world around her. I like her a lot.

This makes me think of my own aging process since my birthday comes just a few weeks after hers. We're both hitting milestones this year. I am very excited to be turning 40. Just like when I turned 30 I view it as a new decade. An opportunity to wipe the slate clean and start over. How cool is that? All the dumb messed up stuff I did in my thirties is over and done with. I get to make new choices, have new and amazing ideas and live the life I've always wanted. Ok, not really that last part because I am already living the life I've always wanted.

Am I having a big party? Darn tootin' I am! I am going to relish in my age and my wisdom and my experience and my abilities and my friends and my family and everything and everyone who makes me who I am.

Yehaw!!!!!!

I may not be turning 5 but I can still make a birthday list. So here goes (with the forewarning that I can add to this list at any time because it is my birthday!)

Pioneer Woman Cookbook - this just looks fab!

Bakerella Cookbook - because I'm worth it!

Mary Lake Thompson Bicycle Apron - Found HERE

Downlow Glow for my bike - because my bike is cool and this would make it even cooler!

Gift cards to Lowe's are ALWAYS wanted and appreciated!!!

And I'm sure I'll think of more great ideas as I prep to jump from one decade to the next. Now off to plan a lollipop birthday for a future 5 year old!!

My Journey to Losing my House - Chapter 4

2010-07-27T09:38:00.000-07:00

I really should have written before this but alas, life got in the way. The journey has been continuing and has been quite an adventure so far. On the home sale front we got another buyer and made it all the way to the inspection phase. We thought we would be moving in the next couple of weeks but it all fell apart when the inspector said we had termites and the buyer pulled out. We have searched all over the house, underneath, inside and outside and cannot find these pests anywhere but it is too late. Our buyer is long gone.

But here's where the journey gets interesting. We've been praying and asking the Lord for direction and by asking Him to guide us we commit follow where he leads. This is not easy. There is no manual and I have not seen Him writing on any walls as of late. Therefore, all we have are the circumstances of life to be our map.

That being said an inspection report of pests that don't exist is a pretty clear sign that it is time to do the next thing. For us the next thing is foreclosure. In all honesty, it is really sad. Who wants this for their life? Not me. But it is not about me right? (The correct answer here is: right!)

More and more information has been made available to us through this process and we feel compelled to make the best decision we can make for ourselves and our children. That appears, at this point, to be letting our house go. Man, what a bummer.

Then again, I would rather endure this now and do the right thing than try to take my own path and find myself way outside the will of God. I know about a guy named Jonah who tried that and it did not work out so well for him. You remember, big fish and all.

Well, we'll keep on our journey - we actually got the letter and our house will be auctioned off on November 29, 2010 (oh joy!). It is not easy, nor is it fun, but as a friend reminded me recently - God is good. Regardless of our circumstances and our earthly challenges. God is good.

My Journey to Losing my House - Chapter 3

2010-04-30T17:23:00.000-07:00

I recently heard a C.S. Lewis quote that I really liked.

“Our Father refreshes us on the journey with some pleasant inns, but will not encourage us to mistake them for home.”

This is such a great thought, on so many levels. For our family's current situation it is a great reminder of our purpose and our calling. We are Christ Followers. No more. No less. Where He leads us we must go. In doing so we will find His provision, His peace and a deep sense of joy because we are in the center of His will.

It is not easy to stay, as some of my good friends put it, under the spigot of His blessing. There are many things that pull us in other directions and sometimes we find we have strayed but it is always possible to get back under the spigot. And that is our responsibility - to stay focused and on track.

Our current update is: we got an offer on the house, then it was withdrawn. We lowered the price again, after not having any interest, and immediately got another offer, which we believe is a strong one. Hopefully, the bank thinks so too.

It is strange because I haven't planted anything this year. No flowers yet or veggies for our garden because I am unsure if we will be here to see them come to maturity or not. I had some great ideas to finish our back yard and now those are out the window. Oh, well. At least some random bulbs did come up and have been lovely to look at.

Emotionally I go up and down. The unknown is difficult to deal with sometimes, but it isn't my top priority. Ultimately, I am practicing trust and each day brings it's own challenges in that effort.

So that's why I really do like Lewis' quote because this is a pleasant inn but I cannot mistake it for my home.

I have decided to name whatever house we are in at the moment "Fish Inn" to remind me it is temporary and of the things I love - like standing in rivers and catching steelhead.

Faith - my deep thought for the day

2010-04-28T21:35:00.000-07:00

At our church we are going through a series called "Give Your Life Away." So the main point is to give God everything you have. Give Him your time, your resources, your stuff. I get it.

Word on the street is once you do that you are practicing faith. Faith that He will take care of you and be provide all your needs. I suppose that is all fine and good, even an important part of the process. But in my experience that is what is called soft faith. It does not cost much to tell God He can have your stuff.

What takes solid, hard-core faith is when He starts to take what you've given Him permission to have. The car, the job, the money in your bank account. The child, the spouse, the things that give you meaning in your life. When He starts to take these away faith takes on a whole new meaning, and it gets expensive.

I am in no position to judge what solid faith is for someone else, but I can say from my experience that there is definitely cost involved with giving everything up to Him. There is a lot of talk of people who live in other countries, mostly third-world countries, whose only option is faith because they have nothing else. Then pastors and bible study leaders tell us, "Be like those people in Africa or China or South America - they really know what faith is." Um, yeah. I'm getting a pretty good idea about it right here. Thanks.

I know they don't have 911 over there, but I don't have the money to call 911 either. At this point I have to pray for miraculous healing too because health-care reform or not, I cannot afford the doctor visit.

Anyway, that was my deep thought for the day. I've got hard-core faith but I'm broke. Not just materially either.

A good reason to start STUMBLING!

2010-04-03T10:53:00.000-07:00

So my new favorite thing to do is STUMBLE!. Now I'm well aware of my physical clumsiness so I don't need any reminders of my scraped knees, scratched hands or stubbed toes. But this is very cool.

By signing up at stumbleupon.com and adding the button to my toolbar I have access to all kinds of websites and blogs that pertain to things I love. Such as: gardening, kids, interior design, fitness and cooking.

By clicking the STUMBLE! button I am directed to sites that I have interest in (because I've chosen the topics I want) and I find all kinds of interesting things that I would never be able to find on my own in a million years of googling.

If you have a passion or interest there are others around the world who have it too and STUMBLE! is a great way to learn, share and discover more about the things you love.

So, why not get started today. There's no better time to start STUMBLING!

Pork Tenderloin w/ Mushroom Sauce

2010-04-01T17:54:00.000-07:00

Recipe: (All ingredients available at Costco)

1 pork tenderloin
1 1/2 cups Mr. Yoshida's Original Gourmet Sauce (marinade and grilling sauce)

Mushroom Sauce:

2 Tbsp. butter
1 tsp. toasted sesame oil (or veggie oil)
1 garlic clove, minced
3/4 cup sliced fresh mushrooms
1/4 cup white wine
2 Tbsp. Mr. Yoshida's Original Gourmet Sauce

Marinate pork in gourmet sauce in the refigerator for 6 hours or overnight

Preheat 375F

Place pork on baking sheet (discard marinade)

Set on the center rack and cook for 25 - 35 minutes, if cut into cutlets, or 1.5 hours or until the internal temp. is 160F if cooking as a roast.

Remove pork from oven and let stand.

To prepare the sauce, melt butter and oil in hot skillet over medium heat. Add garlic and mushrooms and saute until tender. Pour in wine and cook for 1 minute. (I used champagne and it was stellar!!)

Add gourmet sauce and cook for another 2-3 minutes

To serve, place the pork on a platter and pour the sauce over and around it.

Makes 6 servings.

Oatmeal Choc. Chip. Yogurt Muffins

2010-04-01T17:40:00.000-07:00

Recipe:

1 cup flour
1 cup old-fashioned rolled oats
1/2 cup firmly packed brown sugar
1 1/2 tsp. baking powder
1/2 tsp. salt
1/4 tsp. cinnamon
1/2 cup raisins, craisins or choc. chips
1 cup Dannon Light & Fit Yogurt (vanilla or strawberry)
1 large egg
2 Tbsp. veggie oil

Preheat oven to 375

Lightly grease 1/2 cup muffin tins or use paper liners (or silicone cups)

In bowl mix flour, oats, brown sugar, baking powder, salt, cinnamon and raisins / choc. chips

In another bowl whisk together yogurt, egg and oil

Combine mixtures and stir until batter is just combined

Divide batter among 10 muffin cavities and bake on middle rack for 22-25 minutes.

Yield: 10 - 12 servings

Forgiveness and Justice - the key that unlocks the door.

2010-03-28T22:42:00.000-07:00

I heard part of a radio program today. Being interviewed was a professor of psychology, Michael McCullough, who has studied the institution of forgiveness from a scientific perspective and written a book entitled Beyond Revenge: The Evolution of the Forgiveness Instinct. I only caught a part of the program, but that was enough to send my brain into overdrive.

Here is part of the transcript from the show:

"Western religious and therapeutic mindsets have come to imagine revenge as a disease that can be cured by civilization. It hasn't been seen as a natural, biologically driven impulse to which we all remain prone under certain circumstances. And at the same time, the seemingly colder eye of evolutionary biology has analyzed ruthlessness as an advantage in the relentless arc of the survival of the fittest. Forgiveness in both of these scenarios is a rare transcendent quality, a cure for revenge albeit one that would never help human beings really triumph."

Now this struck me because this is where I come from, an evolutionary biology driven society. Meaning that to forgive, instead of seek revenge, is weak or a cop-out. If I forgive you I cannot get ahead of you and that is what is most important.

Hmmmmm.

Next McCullough talked about the idea of other cultures where forgiveness has become the only other alternative to what they are experiencing. He uses the example of Uganda where the Lord's Resistance Army is taking children and turning them into soldiers. Then, the LRA is requiring those children to go back into their villages and kill their siblings, parents, neighbors and friends. The culture is being decimated. He calls it 'the fabric of their history' totally being destroyed. Their children are being taken, used as sex slaves and turned into soldiers. The people who are left behind are so tired of fighting that they are using their last weapon. Forgiveness.

"They've used radio programs, radio broadcasts, word of mouth, newspapers, really any vehicle they can get hold of to send this message out: that if you will come back to your village, lay down your arms, meet with the elders, meet with the community, and work out a plan for demonstrating your desire to rejoin us, we'll let you rejoin us as a member of our community in good standing.

And they've been coming back in groups as large as 300, 400, 500, 900. Laying down their guns, working out plans for reparation. Trying to find some way to compensate victims for the harms they've caused. At risk to themselves, mind you. I mean, these returnees now have to worry about these villagers' own desires for revenge against them. So they take a risk in coming back and yet many of them are doing it, and in part it really is because there just isn't another way."

This is really what got me thinking. I believe there is a deep conundrum that plagues anyone who wants to do justice. If you think about forgiveness as it relates to justice the average westerner is starting from a deficit. We believe, or have been led to believe over time, that revenge is, as stated above, an advantage in the survival of the fittest. So if this is true, then we cannot fully engage in justice because we cannot bring ourselves to forgive for the atrocities against which we are fighting. We can't, but God can. And when it comes down to it it's our only hope.

So it is not enough to implore people to participate in justice. It is not enough to tug at their heart strings with videos and pictures of hurting people, dirty water or failing crops. Without forgiveness the justice we try to give to them is only a band-aid. It seeks to throw money or time at the problem, but not get at it's core. True justice takes love and without forgiveness love is incomplete. It's that simple.

Let me bring this full circle. God works in very mysterious ways. Last night I was praying for a friend who is in DR Congo. Then I opened up a BBC story about a massacre in northern DRC carried out by non other than the LRA. In December 2009 321 people were killed by the LRA. The bile rose up in my throat. That awful feeling of helplessness surged through my body and I cried out to God for revenge. I woke up this morning thinking about it. Then I turned on the radio and heard this story about the people, against whom some of these atrocities are being perpetrated, seeking to impart forgiveness on the children who have been brainwashed by Joseph Kony and his evil empire. They even seek to show him forgiveness.

Suddenly I see the whole picture. I questioned God last night, asking Him how these horrible things could happen. He sent me an answer today of maimed and battle-weary people forgiving.

If I, or anyone for that matter, wants to genuinely see justice done, forgiveness is the key. It is not something that, as McCullough puts it, "doormats do or wimps do...forgiveness is a brawny muscular exercise that I kind of imagine someone with a great passion for life and a great hardy sort of disposition being able to take on."

I have a great passion for life. I have a great passion for seeing and doing in justice. Do you?

If you are interested you can hear or read the whole program HERE.

Tilt - Living in a Pinball World

2010-03-28T20:56:00.000-07:00

When I was a kid I remember listening to the grown ups around the table talk about the world. They'd talk about current events, presidents, taxes, jobs, housing prices, personal struggles, life. The general theme always seemed to be things will even out, things will get better, things will improve.

Now I am an adult. Still I count on those same voices to be the voice of reason in a crazy world saying, "Things will even out, get better, improve." The problem is that those voices are not saying those things anymore. And it feels strange.

Now I hear, "We've never seen it like this before." "We don't know what's going to happen, so we're taking a cautious approach." Huh? But you're my parents.

Life kinda feels like an old pinball machine. You know the one at the roller rink or the pizza place? You just try to keep the ball rolling. Bouncing off one bumper then another, landing in a target and getting shot out again. You just keep slappin' those flippers, faster and faster.

Then you hit the machine just a little too hard, it moves and suddenly you see the backbox light up and the Tilt light flashing like cops after their favorite donuts. Doh! You lose your turn, your ball disappears. There goes your job. Your house. Your health.

Once in a while the machine gets hit so hard, like when you saw your older brother's friend get crazed on the Dukes of Hazzard machine and knee the front of the machine that it's a Slam Tilt. Game over, you are outta here!

I have been studying the book of Revelation all year so I don't think we've Slam Tilted yet, but it sure feels like a whole lotta people are seeing that Tilt light flashing. And it's like you're mom's totally outta quarters. She's talking to her friends waiting for the pizza to arrive and says, "I don't have any more quarters for you to play that machine!" Then she says, "I don't have any money at all. And I don't know when I'm going to have any."

What? My mom's outta money? Moms always have money. The government supposed to take care of me. The state will always pay me if they owe me money on my taxes. A house is a good investment. You get my point.

My issue is that everything and everyone is tilted (whether you are willing to admit it or not). It's disconcerting that even the "grown ups" are scared.

Well, you're a grown up now too, so quit your belly aching, grab an adult beverage (because you can), pull the plunger and start slappin' the flippers. Your pizza will be out in a minute.

Here's to having another ball to play. Cheers!

My Journey to Losing my House - Chapter 2

2010-03-21T17:54:00.000-07:00

Our house is now on the market. We didn't get any interest with our first price so we dropped it and have had showings almost every day. This is good news and bad news. It is good news because our goal is to get an offer to start the ball rolling on the short sale. It is bad because I have two little munchkins who do not understand why they cannot have all their toys out any more. There's nothing like trying to keep your house ultra-clean with two small people who are still learning about putting things away.

Now I understand that someone is going to get a smokin' deal on a house so I shouldn't be too worried about how it looks, as opposed to if I was trying to get top dollar for it. However, as a woman I remember house hunting and being completely turned off by some of the homes we looked at due to the clutter and the lack of upkeep. I don't want someone to come into my house and think we don't take care of our stuff.

It is amazing to think that I am worried about the opinions of people I will never meet. I might have to work on that.

The who and when are out of my control. It is now a waiting game. And my eyes begin to look ahead to what comes next. My thoughts jump forward to the horizon as I search for a sign as to where we will go, what we will do and how we will get there. I wonder if Abraham felt like this? I know change is coming. I just have no vision for it.

Then I went to Redux today and there was a question: "What is faith?"

The simple answer given was TRUST. Trust not in what we can see or know, but in a God who can and does. This is not new information to me, but it was pertinent today because it is exceedingly difficult to see very far out right now. I do not know what is going to happen, where we will end up, what the next few months hold for us.

But ultimately, I have faith. I believe God. And when I start to look towards the horizon I am okay with all the uncertainty. I really am. I have peace and assurance because being totally sold out to Christ is being totally dependent on Him and His plan for my life. This is a great place to be. I do not have to worry or stress out. I can leave it in His hands and raise my kids and love my husband and care for my friends while He, the God of the universe, takes care of each and every detail of my life. EVERY one.

So, I'll keep walking by faith. I do not need to walk by sight. Instead, I can keep my sights on those I love and those I am called to serve. I do not need to worry about tomorrow. I will not try to wrestle control away from Him, especially not now.

For this is not my permanent home. It is just a place where I am honing my skills for eternity. Building character, practicing integrity, expressing love. This is where I become the person that God created me to be. This is where I get to BE a true Christ follower. So, bring it on, the uncertainty, the unlit pathway, the unknown. "As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." (Jos. 24:15) And if I do it well, then someday it may be attributed to me as righteousness, that I believed God. (Gen. 15:6, Gal. 3:6)

My Journey to Losing My House - Chapter 1

2010-03-05T16:10:00.000-08:00

I have been debating for a while now as to whether or not I should write about this. I usually make a list of pros and cons when I am debating something and here is what I have come up with:

Pros:
You or someone you know is in the same boat.
You or someone you know can use the info.
You or someone you know can use a friend. You are NOT alone.

Cons:
You now know my financial situation. (I could care less.)
You may judge me. (That's your problem, not mine.)
You have preconceived ideas about the current state of the world. (Read on, get informed.)

Disclaimer:

I will interchangeably use we and I because my husband and I are in this together but since I can only speak for myself the feelings I have about the situation are mine alone.

So the short version is - We are losing our house. Now I deliberately say house and not home because while we like this place a lot it does not define us and it will not change anything about us as people not to live here any more. Our home is wherever we are together as a family.

Background:

We purchased our house 5 years ago. Just before I found out I was pregnant with my first child. We talked to our parents and grandparents and we did what they told us to do - buy a little house, start a family, sell it and move up to something a little bigger. Do not get greedy right out of the gate. Buy within your means.

So that is what we did. We were offered a boat load of money for just about any house we wanted. We did not take that boat. Let's just say we took a little skiff - something we could afford and manage. The problem was we did this in Bend, OR. The wackiest place on earth to buy and sell real estate. We by no means bought our home during the height of the market. We bought in an upswing, but not at the peak.

I found a great quote from 2002 from Realtor Reuben Garmyn:

"Central Oregon's red-hot real estate market seems a great investment. While the rate of return may not be as fast or furious as playing the NASDAQ, new homebuyers probably won't crash and burn. New homeowners in Bend are finding their real estate investment firmly in place; new home appreciation in the Bend area appears to be rising at an extraordinary rate."

I think that is what every home buyer and Realtor and mortgage person and business owner and family member thought. Well, it didn't turn out that way. We all know it was a combination of events and factors.

Five years later here we are.

So jump forward to today. After much prayer and discussion, information hunting and visiting with the experts we have decided to let our house go. We have decided to try for a short sale. It is the best decision for our family and the only one that makes sense given our circumstances. It is sad and it is not ideal. But it is wise and our way of making the best of a not so ideal situation.

So, here are the pros and cons for our situation:

Pros:
We have great credit.
We have no debt (other than the mortgage) (Thanks Dave Ramsey!!)
We are healthy.
We have each other.
Our marriage / family is strong.

Cons:
Our credit will take a hit.
We are going against everything we have been taught about responsibility.
We will be at the mercy of the rental market.

So there it is. If I meet you on the street or in a store and you want to know what is going on in my life. There you have it.

It is an ongoing process. It involves plenty of emotion and decision making. I will continue to blog about all this and more.

Prayer and Support for Haiti

2010-01-15T14:15:00.000-08:00

As we all know the devastation is immense. Prayer is our best gift to the hurting and homeless people of Haiti. THE FUNKI PLANET is partnering with World Relief, a 70+ year-old help and relief organization to pray for the people of Haiti.

Please add these needs to your prayer list:

* Pray for God’s grace and comfort to be very real and present to the people of Haiti.

* World Relief has dispatched its Disaster Response team to Haiti. Please pray for the team’s safety and for strength and wisdom on the ground in Port-au-Prince.

* Pray for the logistical challenges of getting aid into the hands of the most vulnerable people at this critical time. Ask God to clear the way and to empower His people to serve Haiti’s most vulnerable in the midst of chaos.

*Pray for World Relief staff and their families, and for people you know with friends and family in Haiti. Pray for efforts to bring people together.

*In the days ahead, Haiti’s churches will be at the center of relief and recovery efforts. Please pray for your brothers and sisters in Haiti as they respond to the despair around them.

*Right now, the situation is dark – but the light shines brightest in the darkness. Pray that the light of Christ will shine through and give hope to those who have lost all hope.

* Pray for lasting change.

* Pray for the orphans in Haiti, especially those waiting for the finalization of their adoption paperwork. Many, many are ready to come home to loving families around the world. Please pray that the government of Haiti and the countries of the adoptive families will find a way to get these kids placed immediately.

Hopefully you have made a donation to the Red Cross or another reputable charity.

If not, or if you are looking for a way to do more, please consider donating to World Relief. World Relief has a disaster relief team on the ground today in Port-au-Prince working in Kings Hospital. This is not a start up organization. World Relief has been helping people around the world for over 70 years. Your donations are needed and will be put to use in country.

Donate HERE.

You can find out more about World Relief HERE.

Thank you everyone for your prayers and your support.

2009 Book List

2009-12-28T22:06:00.001-08:00

What a year for books. I read some really good ones and some, well, not so good ones. I've compiled my picks for 2009 at Salt&Light3.com. Check it out and find your next read!